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is it ok to still love some one who died with all your heart and reject every one how wants to get close

I suffered that exact thing for many years. Yeah it's ok. Grief has no time limit
SW-User
Yes, it is more than ok.

When you love someone that deeply the love does not die just because the physical body dies. Eternal love is real and resides within the soul,which continues on. Souls,once connected,never lose each other.

I know beyond a shadow of doubt that if my Husband passes away before me,my love for him will continue,and when we meet again,after my passing, our love will be stronger than it was while we walked the Earth.

Some people have lived together, and loved each other,over many life times,and I think this is why I would never let anyone get close to me besides my Husband,whether while I am in this physical body,or the spiritual realm.

Hey, but what do I know...🤷‍♀️
hardcor364 · 56-60, M
@SW-User thank you, your answer brought a tear to my eye in a good way, the people who do not understand have never truly known love, the full story of why i still lover with all my heart is to long and painful to put on hear.
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Newlife · 51-55, F
Some people never get over the loss of their love. Don't worry about what others think you should or shouldn't feel/do. You may never want to be with anyone else & that is ok
hardcor364 · 56-60, M
@Newlife thank you not many people get it, i know it upsets the women who love me with all there heart but i would be betraying them and my true love if i was to get involved. theres one woman who says she understands and we can only be friends, but i catch her crying some times because she cant have me
Gangstress · 41-45, F
It depends how long you have been like this if honest
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
Do either of the two current women know about your original sweetheart? I think the key here may be to do with if they did know would they demand you shut your old love down or let you treasure it and start a brand new to go alongside it. To go "alongside it" mind... not to "replace it. @hardcor364
hardcor364 · 56-60, M
yes they both know and it kills them that i cant give them the love they want
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
In that case you may want to make a few adjustments here and there. The human psych isn't usually at it's best trying to go through life without close companionship. @hardcor364
I guess.. but then maybe you should wear a ring so people know you're unavailable
SW-User
That's not fair.
hardcor364 · 56-60, M
@SW-User would it be fair to fake love to try to make some one who loves you happy
SW-User
@hardcor364 I don't get you. 🤔
hardcor364 · 56-60, M
@hardcor364 thank you. at least someone understands my predicament.
hardcor364 · 56-60, M
Gangstress · 41-45, F
@hardcor364 after you posted you can edit it buddy
hardcor364 · 56-60, M
@Gangstress thanks i had no idea you could do that
It’s very normal.

 
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