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My parents have been fighting a lot lately?

My parents argued before but I have been hearing then fight and I can hear them. They yell and scream. I'm sick of it. I mean they fight and call each other horrible names. My parents won't talk to each other. Then they act all lovey dovey. Parents are so confusing. They fight and can't stand each other and they act all loving. They fight in front of me. My mom said she is glad I saw that because one day this will happen to me and this is real life. They always expose me with this kind of stuff.

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Montanaman · M

Sit them down, with tears in your eyes, and tell them what their fighting does to you, how it makes you feel. Y boys did that years ago when things were rough, and we put a stop to it, then and there.😔🤗🤗

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

My husband only made it a point to not yell at me loudly after our youngest son did this. Never changed anything relatinship-ily. I think it’s sweet and thoughtful that you actually care enough to change for yours. @Montanaman

Montanaman · M

@TwiddlerofThumbs thank you. We rarely fight now. Once in a blue moon, and it's quelled very quickly.
My sons are young men now, and very protective of their mother, so I watch my anger and frustrations. 👍🤗🤗

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

But how do you solve your anger?? @Montanaman

Montanaman · M

@TwiddlerofThumbs I look at my 65" Samsung HDTV...
The last time I lost my temper, (two Thanksgiving's ago)
My oldest pit his fist through it, instead of hitting me. 🙄
And I quickly, just leave the room for a bit.

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

😕 I’m glad you do okay, but that’s still not healthy. Without resolution.... *sigh* but, I guess there is not always a way to resolve shit. @Montanaman

Montanaman · M

@TwiddlerofThumbs most times, yes. But sometimes, I lose my temper only because I want my opinion or point heard. There are times, when she simply just doesn't want to hear it.
Most importantly, we never go to bed mad or angry at each other, and Always say I love you, a hundred times a day maybe. 😍💕💕

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

It is sweet you try so hard to do what you feel is right and good. ❣️@Montanaman

Montanaman · M

@TwiddlerofThumbs I've learned after 31 years of marriage, its all about making Her happy, then she is eager to make me happy. 👍💕💕
And thank you.🤗

PoppyLoveLala · F

@Montanaman I am so SICK OF THEM FIGHTING!!!! I can hear them all the time.

Montanaman · M

@PoppyLoveLala I understand. Tell them. Point blank, to shut the Fuck up!
😔💔💓🤗

PoppyLoveLala · F

@Montanaman They'd probably kill me for cursing. My mom and dad just fight fight fight! Why don't they just divorce if they're going to keep fighting?! I'm tired of it.

Montanaman · M

@PoppyLoveLala yes, understand. Do ask them, why don't you two just get a divorce?
Or if not enough courage to ask face to face, write a note, telling them how you feel, and leave it where one of them will find it.
*Huddles in your room, with headphones on, listening to Sick Puppies, "Odd One"*
🤗
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