So let me get this straight if a person should decide to act and dress like a dog y'all would think that person is deluded but let some mf crossdress

I think depending on where you ask the question both could be scorned and both could be accepted. I think because gender dysphoria is medical condition people might be more accepting of it rather than someone who dresses like a dog which maybe they think is just a fetish thing. And of course for lots of cross dressers it is a fetish thing too.