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Do you think it's best to have kids when younger or older?

Let's say 'younger' is under 21 and 'older' is over 35.

I see cons and pros to both
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HannahSky · F
Under 21 no way!
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@HannahSky but the pro that I see is that, that person would most likely still be living at home. So they'd get financial help and parental support. Also, they be fairly young once that child becomes an adult.
HannahSky · F
@iamnikki But how is that right to put that on your parents? They already put financial support into you to become independent and do whatever you choose in life. Now they have to help raise a grandchild? And still support you? Who has time or money for that?
Who you are at 21 is different than who you are at 35 the other end of your spectrum for having children.
I don't think it's fair to anyone at that age to be having children and not being ready to take care of them.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@HannahSky i didnt say it was right. I just said i saw a pro. I dont have children.
HannahSky · F
@iamnikki I understand
.. I'm not directing at you personally. Those are my thoughts on it.