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Mindful · 56-60, F
Men see women as a tool...
I really wish I could have guy friends that weren’t desperately hoping to score at the end — and I am HAPPY to pay my own way. I don’t t use friends For their money. But I also don’t want to be used for my money.
I really wish I could have guy friends that weren’t desperately hoping to score at the end — and I am HAPPY to pay my own way. I don’t t use friends For their money. But I also don’t want to be used for my money.
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Mindful · 56-60, F
That’s really reasonable sounding to me! @LongDistanceRecon636
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CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Nah that's fine.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
No, I don't think so...men and women can just be friends and company to one another without any romantic or sexual strings attached.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
I have ,and the bs about one is gay posted below ,,a kid
When you have lots of unmarried female friend
Occasionally one asks would you like to go to a movie ,a concert or out to eat
I like to pay ,I enjoy the company
Just like them ,things are not as fun when you have no one to share it with ,
So a good friend is much better then alone
And she knows your not expecting anything afterwards
You could have done that and by passed the night out .
and that lets her enjoy the time out that much more
When you have lots of unmarried female friend
Occasionally one asks would you like to go to a movie ,a concert or out to eat
I like to pay ,I enjoy the company
Just like them ,things are not as fun when you have no one to share it with ,
So a good friend is much better then alone
And she knows your not expecting anything afterwards
You could have done that and by passed the night out .
and that lets her enjoy the time out that much more
Eternity · 26-30, M
Everything is cool until you want her to pay for herself.
Then all hell breaks loose.
Then all hell breaks loose.
bijouxbroussard · F
@Eternity The funny thing is, even with male platonic friends my age I have to insist on paying.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
No more unusual than going out with a sibling or relative
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SW-User
No, I have plenty of guy friends
Mindful · 56-60, F
I had plenty of friends at your age, the older you get, intentions begin to change.@SW-User
Im still not paying. Nice try.
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@DarlingSelah I went to the movies with this girl while I was in high school and we went just as friends, I offered to pay for her ticket but she insisted to pay for her own. Guess I got lucky there lol.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
It is unusual for me and I can't say it doesn't make me feel awkward unless it's my gay friend. I always prefer to go out with at least two men. It makes atmosphere much lighter and conversations less clumsy.
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Never
Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@ImRileyTheDog a lot of guys mocked me in high school because this girl and I went to the movies just as friends, they mocked me for not trying to "hit it".
MorbidCynic · F
Maybe it’s because I’m a dyke but I do this with my guy friends. I do this with female friends as well, sometimes it’s a groups event with both. Friends tend to hang out, it’s not unusual lol
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Billybob2 · 26-30, M
@LongDistanceRecon636 Well I'm not emo, but a girl I knew during high school and I went to the movies as just friends.
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JupiterDreams · 31-35
Noo.
SW-User
No.
no.
TexChik · F
Being married , I can’t do that ... nor would I want to . I like going by myself ... to an early matinee on Saturdays
SW-User
depends, if both are committed to other people, then may be ok.
Only if one of them is gay
bijouxbroussard · F
Not really. I’ve done so several times.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I don't think it is. I have always done this.