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How to seem more approachable?

I feel like im not approachable, what should i do?
SailorMarz · F
I seem unapproachable but there are some brave people
SailorMarz · F
@MySoulAlone *looks at your profile pic* you don't look that scary lol
MySoulAlone · 31-35, F
@SailorMarz lol! thank you.
SailorMarz · F
@MySoulAlone consider yourself approached!

This will solve all your problems
MySoulAlone · 31-35, F
@Teggy i love fun shirts!
frogpond · 70-79, M
If you only want to "seem more approachable" I think that might be part of the problem. You have to want to be, try smiling in your profile photo. I am not being mean, just something to think about.
Start the conversation by staying "hi", and "howre doing?" Or make a small joke that's bad where others may find they can connect.

It takes practice to relax around others.
shaelan · 41-45, M
My ex always wanted to change this about me. Go watch that on YouTube, she'd say. Now, I give this advice unto you. I promise it's never been used!
SW-User
Some people aren't very approachable 🤷‍♂️ If an approach is necessary, take the initiative.
Thats how I handle it anyway.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
You can do the approaching too.Smile.Use some eye contact.Listen and be attentive.If you are attracted to someone flirt.
Cannabro · 36-40, M
Make the first move, you might be too sexy for your own good so approach them with confidence I guess
SW-User
Walk into a room smiling

They’ll either think something is up or smile back lol
Zaphod42 · 51-55, M
Putting the gun down might help 🤷‍♂️
MySoulAlone · 31-35, F
@Zaphod42 gun?
Zaphod42 · 51-55, M
@MySoulAlone Just a joke, my humorless friend ;-)
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Nothing, you be yourself
MySoulAlone · 31-35, F
@ImRileyTheDog idk myself.
Peppa · 31-35, F
Smile, be kind, be friendly, have good posture
SaulGoodman · 26-30, M
Wear funny t shirts
Prettybrat · 26-30, F
Smile make eye contact
CathyUK · 56-60, F
Just relax..
change your personality I don’t know I personally don’t want to be approachable so I can’t really give you more than that sorry
MySoulAlone · 31-35, F
@MysteriousAura i dont wanna be either but i feel like i have to.
@MySoulAlone I don’t blame you sorry I couldn’t be of more help to you
midnightsun · 26-30, M
looks like u got the resting bitchface but your profile pic is too vague for me to judge anyways
MySoulAlone · 31-35, F
@midnightsun i do feel like thats why im not approachable. i have a straight face all the time.
midnightsun · 26-30, M
@MySoulAlone well, then you got your answer
deadgerbil · 26-30
Maybe joke around more, etc, give off an easy going vibe.
MySoulAlone · 31-35, F
@deadgerbil im not really a joker, im so shy...
deadgerbil · 26-30
@MySoulAlone Humor can help you loosen up and help the shyness. I used to have the worst social anxiety and humor helps me a lot lol
Cannabro · 36-40, M
Good advice learn some short jokes or a news topic of the day @MySoulAlone
496sbc · 36-40, M
i honestly think ur quite approchable
Selah ·
Why would you want that
MySoulAlone · 31-35, F
@Selah to make friends?

 
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