I really don’t know how I can forgive this .......

My MIL..a couple of years into my relationship with her daughter,still talked about her ex in from of me,and even rang us up one day,and had him there in her home,and handed him the phone to talk to my gf....what did yours say?
For the record,some 20+ years later,we get along!

If she won’t stop you are setting yourself up. I mean is she actually sorry she did it?

Buy her a box of chocolates and flowers and totally surprise her.

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First, been there and it sucks! My advice is to remember that you are married to your husband, not the MIL. Second, your husband should stand up for you. Yes, real men do this. Last, try to work it out so your husband isn’t caught in the middle. Good luck!

I hate my MIL and I ignore her all the time.

Evil mother in law eh? Well its time to draw a line in the sand and say nope, not having anything more to do with that evil cunt; and your husband or wife has to either accept that or it might be time for them to split.