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do you go in a relationship to fix the significant other?

SW-User
That's not a relationship.
That is another arrangement that is only going to turn into tears and heartbreak.
I don't do that.
popmol22-25, M
@SW-User well want someone to fix me xD
@popmol You must "fix" yourself. Do the hard work. No one wants to fix anybody. They want someone who is strong and can work on problems. You can fix cars or objects. Never people. Unless it is broken bones or such.
popmol22-25, M
@PoetryNEmotion mmh but how can i fix myself without support!
Never. I am not a man's therapist. I firmly believe in love. And wise choices. And acceptance of a person, virtues and flaws.
popmol22-25, M
@PoetryNEmotion cool lady you are :)
@popmol Don't know about that. Just the truth.
popmol22-25, M
SweetMae70-79, F
No. That never works. You just get caught up in their issues.
popmol22-25, M
@SweetMae terrible :(
gmatthewb51-55, M
Not initially, but I am staying in the relationship because my wife needs me due to her illness. We did get married to make things easier for when things get worse for her though, as husbands have more rights and privileges than boyfriends do with a terminally ill person.
Lackwittyname51-55, M
@gmatthewb Agreed, not to suggest any loving person would abandon someone that was terminally ill, I know for my son or my girlfriend I would be there for them, even my ex-wife I would help. I guess I mean more that you say you are staying in the relationship because she needs you due to this. That to me implies if she was healthy the relationship would probably be over, or maybe I am reading that wrong. Also that you say you married to make things easier. Either way, great that you are there for her, and I hope her suffering does not have to drag on.
popmol22-25, M
@gmatthewb aah cool!
gmatthewb51-55, M
@Lackwittyname She has ALS, so it is terminal eventually. If she was never diagnosed and fully healthy today, I would still be in a relationship with her, just not married as neither of us wanted to get married when we originally got together. We have known each other for over 20 years and were friends for a long time before giving a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship a try. It was just over a year after we got to that part in our relationship that she was diagnosed. I do care about her and wish I could spend the rest of my life with her, unfortunately, this disease is taking her from me so soon after we have gotten this close.
Dusty101F
No... I think he did with me to tame me!
He hasn't succeeded 馃榿
popmol22-25, M
@Dusty101 haha so first when i have to visit you i ha ve to capture you cut your claws before i cna give you a hug?
Dusty101F
@popmol yep...! 馃榿
popmol22-25, M
@Dusty101 wow loads of work but still worth it :p
wackidywack22-25
No ??? What the heck ?
popmol22-25, M
@wackidywack haha can just use a normal one too! especially a superhero!
wackidywack22-25
@popmol lolll heroes are hard t find, have fun looking!
popmol22-25, M
@wackidywack a powerwoman and zatanna can't be to bad can't it?
SW-User
I have. Did not work. I do the same with friends.
popmol22-25, M
@SW-User haha you're one cool lady!
SW-User
@popmol I try to be haha
popmol22-25, M
@SW-User you are xD
SW-User
No. Changes happen naturally. Hopefully for good but not for bad.
popmol22-25, M
@SW-User lovely :)
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nahright0941-45, M
we're all kinda broken...and that's ok.
popmol22-25, M
@nahright09 have you never come on somethign non broken?
popmol22-25, M
@JupiterDreams okay miss dreams!
ImRileyTheDog22-25, F
popmol22-25, M
@ImRileyTheDog very cool!
GJOFJ361-69, M
That's not a relationship, that's a remodeling project
popmol22-25, M
@GJOFJ3 cool though :)
kodiac22-25, M
What if they don't want to be fixed?
popmol22-25, M
@kodiac then theres a problem!
kodiac22-25, M
@popmol Or not lol馃
Synyster51-55, M
Nope, I don't do broken.
popmol22-25, M
Synyster51-55, M
@popmol 馃き
Spitbak56-60, M
"Hmmmmm...fix???.......Fix.....
...Ah yes,FIX!!!!"
popmol22-25, M
Nope, I am not a fool
popmol22-25, M
FreeSpirit151-55, F
No, just for fun
popmol22-25, M
@FreeSpirit1 fix or love for fun?
R500041-45, M
or is it for her to fix me?
popmol22-25, M
@R5000 same :p
popmol22-25, M
@Spoiledbrat okay :)
SW-User
do you go into the pool to piss
popmol22-25, M
@SW-User no

 
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