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GerOttman · 61-69, M
So start a little swear jar fund. every time he pays for something you had money for, put the money aside in a little secret account. if it turns out he's really OK, you two will have a tidy little nest egg. if it turns out he's a dangerous control freak, you'll have an escape fund. and if it turns out you like being with a dangerous control freak, you'll have bail money to get him back.