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NickiHijab · F
eMortal · M
@NickiHijab moms always give the same advice.
- "Stay away from party boys"
- "don't go to boys rooms" etc
It's not victim blaming. It's just common sense, preventive moves.
The North Korean government emprison and/or kill American tourists. If I say don't go to North Korea, would you blame me for encouraging their criminal behavior?
- "Stay away from party boys"
- "don't go to boys rooms" etc
It's not victim blaming. It's just common sense, preventive moves.
The North Korean government emprison and/or kill American tourists. If I say don't go to North Korea, would you blame me for encouraging their criminal behavior?
NickiHijab · F
@eMortal I get that and don’t see anything wrong with that but what i’m not okay with is the woman being held responsible [b]after[/b] the assault, because that’s what it is [b]assault.[/b] We as humans, not women or men but as humans always do and tell loved ones to stay safe, so again I see nothing wrong in being cautious but why does this school think it’s okay to teach these kids that the one responsible is the victim? That’s not “common sense” it’s victim blaming and ostracism.
As for that example, there’s a huge difference between 2 hostile countries and 2 sex’s. You’re pretty much implying that “men will be men” and it’s on the women to prevent themselves from being raped. No, how about men start taking responsibility. That’d be a great start, thanks.
As for that example, there’s a huge difference between 2 hostile countries and 2 sex’s. You’re pretty much implying that “men will be men” and it’s on the women to prevent themselves from being raped. No, how about men start taking responsibility. That’d be a great start, thanks.
eMortal · M
@NickiHijab I'm just saying it should be offensive to ask the question mentioned in the post. It's just another preventive way besides educating men better.