@Straylight I just think he means I’m driven and intense.

@JustGoneNow I can see that.

@Straylight 😉

@FreeSpirit1 wow. That's interesting *__* thank you freespirit! 💗

@Dewms 😎 You're welcome.

@FreeSpirit1 Sorry to barge in but I couldn't help overseeing lol. What caught my eye was that recently a doctor commented that my eyes and ears have developed a "stutter". Seems there is a set of nerves that provides input to the brain from the eyes and ears that have become damaged (probably temporarily). The brain, eyes, and ears are fine but the data is slow getting through the nerves. So, when I move, my brain is expecting the input but it gets there later than expected. I stagger, have momentary blurred vision, am clumsy, etc. Normally I am quite coordinated. I thought it interesting that he compared it to a stutter.

@Harriet03 HaHaHa I already did!

@SweetMae Fabulous

@Harriet03 Thanks, Hun.

@Dewms lol omg twins 😂😂 Jasmine and Willow maybe.. Idk twins are unlikely tho for me lol

@YoMomma 😆😆😆 who knowsss

@Dewms yeah lmao 😂😂😅🙂

@Dewms one day I’ll make my debut 😎

@SW-User dont forget to let SWeeps know 😂 who's your fave rapper?

@SW-User

@Dewms Yeah, it was fun, we'd also have these trips twice a year, to a camp where aiesec-ers from the entire country would come (other cities) and have like a small conference type of thing, but it was more for fun. Like a camp for students for 3 days.
Now I'm no longer a student, so I had to say goodbye.

@Dan193 this just keeps getting cooler *__* it must be sad to say goodbye! You gained many connections though, right??

@Dewms At the time, yes. But you know how people grow apart...

@JustGoneNow no need to say sorry. Lol i likeeeeyyy long responses

@JustGoneNow oh my, so many books! *__* i love Stephen King so i know your taste is 💯! Imma check out the ones youve listed. Thank you.

Ohhhh metal! Thats why your profile pics look so metal o:
I hope to hear you sing and play one of these days 😃

I see. Are you doing well now though? Im sorry about being hospitalized :( but i hope your time there gave good results.

@Dewms I was there a really long time. I’m never getting fixed but I’m at least to the point I don’t have to be hospitalized any more. It’s really hard sometimes and most likely my performing days are over but I just keep on keeping on and hope my meds continue to keep working. If they don’t, than things will get real bad and pretty quick. Thanks for your well wishes. 🖤🤗

@Dewms while working at a shelter one year

@AlmostAnAngel whats a shelter like? We dont have it here 😯

@Dewms It's where those that don't have anywhere to go, especially when the weather is really harsh.

@YoMomma well at least it was warm lol

@YoMomma @JustNik
One extreme to the other 😂

@JustNik yeah ☺️

@PoetryNEmotion very nice :) i hope it stays fabulous all the time. Thank you, its bedtime for me now lol. Are you having a good day? *__*

@Dewms Thank you. I am. I have words from that sweet man I love. And I have popped in and out to see what is going on here and to share some words with my circle.

@Dewms it's the second floor where my office is currently.

You're welcome to some of the cold! Then my car won't need to be de-iced in the morning!

@CheshireCatalyst das a pretty high 2nd floor! *__*
Wow my gawd, u have to de-ice!!!!!!!! Wth😵

@Dewms https://similarworlds.com/4-Doing-Good/2374147-Come-and-de-ice-my-car

@SW-User why you so silly?

@Dewms cuz of exams lol

@SW-User slay them one by one. Gnight!

@SW-User how did you hurt it? 😯

@Dewms I pulled it from getting out of a swivel chair. 😕

@BeefySenpie why not? 😐

@Dewms All done

@BeefySenpie thank you for being a responsible household staff

@Dewms Thank you...i like any fast car...porsche...ferrari..

@Diyanne loveeet. So fancy!

@Dewms Haha...thank you...I saw a porsche this morning...its so beautiful...

@1000PaperCranes what wreck? Oh mygod 😟 im glad you came back to life!!!!!!

@Dewms I was riding with my dad and we went through an intersection, but a guy in a truck fell asleep at the wheel and plowed right into my side of the car.

@1000PaperCranes WTF :( youre a survivor 💗

@Dewms well I can’t use sugar any more, as I’m pre-diabetic, so I may add one extra sweetener, or just let it put hair on my chest. 😜

@JavaJoe whats a pre-diabetic? Is that like you're on the brink of having diabetes? 😱

@Dewms correct! I was showing the symptoms of diabetes, and I had to cut way back on my sugar and carb intake.

@gmatthewb wow you have two really different fields youve worked in! Thats cool.
Are u still a computer consultant? 😯 that job sounds really helpful.

I hope you and your wife are okay, despite your individual struggles. Stay strong :)

Not a computer consultant any more. Changed to driving a commercial truck which I enjoy more than any career I have had.

@gmatthewb as long as you enjoy :)

@tracyT ohhhhh 😯 okies. Does your family know youre a crossdresser?

@Dewms My first wife knew. My last partner knew for the over 20 years i was with her. She bought me clothes as presents and her sister saw me dressed when she was over here in England.

@tracyT how did your first wife react?
Your last partner seems like a good and considerate person :) what did her sister say when she saw you?

Yes they eventually knew everything. Sisters helped with hair and makeup.
I can except when I go to work.

@PTCdresser57 wow. They seem accepting :)
Why not work? And do you have a female name you use? O:

Family was accepting. Have to be a guy at work....my female name is Melanie

@Sepia how bout pink? *__*

@Dewms pink is cheesy, dewms...as I am going mid 30's I want to look more serious lol 😁😁

@Sepia omg okies. black or grey!! 🥰

@Dewms lmfao no i was joking 🤣

@SW-User
Oh. I could wet them for you 🤤

@SW-User U___U stahpeeet

@Smokey 🥴

@AlmostAnAngel 😂

@Dewms 🤫

@xixgun oh gosh, how are you now?

@Dewms In pain but functional

@xixgun :( will the pain ever go away?

@Tubbs oh god. Im very sorry to hear. That is so cruel.
Hugs 😟💜

How are you now?

@Dewms Bad

@Tubbs I’m so sorry. 🖤🦋

@Classified Ooooooah 😱😃 You're a real risk taker. You probably get the most excitement from watching it.

@Dan193 I'm just Dutch and favour Verstappen. 😆

Hopefully Honda will deliver. 😁

@Classified Yep, yep, I see.

@Elegy You rock Halcy. 🦋

@JustGoneNow Thank you dear. 🤗

@Elegy 🤗

@CountScrofula That’s interesting. I wouldn’t have guessed.

@JustGoneNow Trust me, if you met me in person you'd be even more confused!

@CountScrofula I’m a different sort of girl too. All the more confusing by my illness. I was pretty wild girl before so I sort of look a different part than I am now. 🦋

@SW-User what happened???!

@SW-User And you are awesome. 🦋

@JustGoneNow loll, you too 😁

@SW-User Glad I met you.

@SW-User Aww. 🖤

@ryoshi0915 maybe its time to reflect :)
What big goals do you have? Why are they concerned about it?

Just that I rarely have time to socialize these days lol. We'll catch up this Christmas. :)

@ryoshi0915 i hope it goes well :) lemme know what happens!

@Dewms you get a series of statements and have to work out using logic what the answer is.


Here is my favourite crossword clue, see if you can work it out:

Gsge (9,4)

@BabyLonia oooooh

gsge???? What the heck is that 😂 i dont think i can answer it o;

@Dewms ok, i will ask in a question

@bob01 WHY BOB

@Diesel95 are you foreal?

@Diesel95 That’s not artistic.