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Should i accept a verbal thing sayin the kids mine or should i ask for a test?

That what she sayin an she got me down as the dad but I dont know
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Since accepting paternity means a financial commitment for 18 years and maybe longer if the child wants to go to college, it's a serious issue. If it was me, I'd ask for a test. That way you will know for sure, and if she gets mad at you it will be harder fir her to keep you from a child you might get quite attached to.
BrandeePrecious · 51-55, F
@Mamapolo2016 very true and great advice. I would get a test. I wouldn't be offended by being asked to take one, unless there was something to hide.
@BrandeePrecious Exactly.
Lilnonames · F
@Mamapolo2016 i like your advice and attitude.your a very unique and tell it like it is person.but u say it nicely
@Lilnonames I'm old. I have to talk quick. 😂
SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 I think I will ask for a test an guage her reaction
Lilnonames · F
@SW-User It's your decision, but since you have expressed some interest, and she may WANT it to be you and may BELIEVE it's you, but only a DNA test will remove nearly all the doubt in your mind and then you will be able to make your choices.
@Mamapolo2016 More Google.

DNA testing is generally considered to be the most accurate testing method available. DNA paternity testing can show that a man is highly likely to be the father with about 99.9% accuracy, or that he is excluded as being the father with 100% accuracy.