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That is the sad truth in many if not most cases. "Friendships" are often shallow because the friends are. They are often around and inseparable companions as long as they are entertained and there is something they can get from you...but when you need to count on them for anything or you cannot offer anything to or do anything for them, they suddenly are unavailable or disappear altogether. A true friend gives to you as much as they get without "keeping score".