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1455spd · 31-35, M
Yup. These days it seems easier to just throw yourself at anyone and then see what sticks. Time to stop with the cheesy romance novel and take your chances in places you wouldn’t have considered
I’m almost 29 and in the exact same boat. I’ve just joined Tinder this week. It might not be a home run, but it’s better than sitting on the bench
I’m almost 29 and in the exact same boat. I’ve just joined Tinder this week. It might not be a home run, but it’s better than sitting on the bench
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@1455spd I have a tinder profile and have tried other apps. I'm not interested in what I seem stuck with
1455spd · 31-35, M
@IAmNothing Welcome to the real world. We can’t all end up with Prince Charming
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Being in a relationship is not as fun as some people make it seem. You think you're lonely now, you're going to want that alone time when you are around someone 24/7, Enjoy it while you can. I'm sure someone will come at the right time. In the mean time try to relax and enjoy your own company. Show yourself some love. True happiness comes from within.
english · 56-60, M
its nice to have the choice ,but you have no idea the brain damage and the heart ache you have saved yourself , thats no answer i know ,but the only one who can things is you . but if you really want a pity party im there with my box of tissues and my journal 🤗
Mamapolo2016 · F
So what have you been doing for 25+ years. Hobbies? Sports? What do you like? Where do you go? What do you do?
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Mamapolo2016 · F
@IAmNothing One of the mistakes young women sometimes make is traveling in herds. A guy might brave approaching a stranger, but a whole species is intimidating. They might stampede!
If you want someone and they're not at work and they're not at home, the obvious next step is, go some different places. I got in trouble for this before but I'll try it again. Change your screen name. If you believe you are nothing, a lot of people will take your word for it, a few will try to take advantage of your poor self-esteem and some will reach out from pity, but none of those will do you any good. Shake things up. Color your hair, or get a new style.
Every woman in the world is not Angelina but then not every guy is Brad.
If you want someone and they're not at work and they're not at home, the obvious next step is, go some different places. I got in trouble for this before but I'll try it again. Change your screen name. If you believe you are nothing, a lot of people will take your word for it, a few will try to take advantage of your poor self-esteem and some will reach out from pity, but none of those will do you any good. Shake things up. Color your hair, or get a new style.
Every woman in the world is not Angelina but then not every guy is Brad.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Mamapolo2016 considering I have zero friends I'm always going places alone
Mamapolo2016 · F
@IAmNothing But you said you don't go anywhere. I don't suggest cosmetic changes so others will look at you differently, but so YOU will.
Why no friends? Are you shy or hard to get along with? You've made it clear things haven't been working for you for some years. So change what you're doing. I'm not saying hang out in bars...volunteer someplace, take a class. Even if you meet women, they know men.
Why no friends? Are you shy or hard to get along with? You've made it clear things haven't been working for you for some years. So change what you're doing. I'm not saying hang out in bars...volunteer someplace, take a class. Even if you meet women, they know men.
satan · M
I haven’t been in a relationship for 2 years now. No biggie 🤷♂️
satan · M
It doesn’t matter though. Being single is great. Why complain? Lol @IAmNothing
SW-User
Never been in any real relationship either. So many flaws, I don't think I'll ever make one. We are doomed
SailorMarz · F
You should get yourself 5 cats
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ViciDraco · 36-40, M
What have you done for yourself in that time?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@ViciDraco nothing