Serious question, does swearing on SW ever annoy you?
Would you consider blocking someone simply for excessive swearing?
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It's when swearing is used effectively which I find really acceptable and, to be honest, I prefer it to be used by men and not women. There's a certain masculinity that exudes, a passion, when used effectively. Quite a number of authors have used swearing to great effect - 'c' word included. The worst use is when it is used to impress, to show off. Some women often do this for that very reason and it's instantly recognized as lacking that driving force which comes from a deep passion; it's at that point that it becomes weak and meaningless. It's rare to hear anyone use the 'c'word in France as it has not infiltrated our language - we have our own words. The 'f' word is often used adjectively in English - as in 'f...king idiot' but in France our swear words are rarely , if ever, used in that manner. So, as an expression of deep, temporary rage or resentment the 'f' word is a valuable tool.
Mamapolo2016 · F
Jm31xxx · 46-50, M
@Mamapolo2016 sometimes though people can swear because they are amazed/thankful/relieved as well as angry.
Mamapolo2016 · F
@Jm31xxx I don't object to a reverent "Day-umm." With the exception of one very composed, gracious, and well-spoken woman who was my roomie in the hospital, and swore like a drunken sailor denied shore leave when recovering from anesthetic, you talk how you talk. You can do that, and I can turn you off.
Mamapolo2016 · F
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Mamapolo2016 · F
@Jm31xxx That's the kind of thing I'm talking about. I don't have much respect for those who a) use words not for communication but aural or visual assault. b) don't bother trying to find the words to describe what they're talking about. It's essentially a verbal tantrum and I find it childish and tiresome. It's lazy (especially in such a word-oriented medium as this) and I could count on one hand the times I found they said anything worth my time to read.
Jm31xxx · 46-50, M
@Mamapolo2016 I did hear recently that swearing isnt necessarily indicative of a thwarted vocabulary, mediocre eleqeunce or substandard intelligence. But lately (because of my new job) I've been hearing the word c**t a lot (always directed at men btw) and they all seem dumb as fuck
Mamapolo2016 · F
@Jm31xxx I've heard that too and it may well be true. I don't care if someone uses only four-letter words. They have a right to do that, and I have a right not to listen to it or read it.
KayraJordyn · F
Mamapolo2016 · F
I guess in some regards it's similar to your manner of dress. You can show up for an interview in stained shirt and torn jeans, but it's unlikely you'll be taken seriously. Not because people are more productive in suit and tie, but because it reflects the applicant's attitude. Speech is the same.
LyricalOne · F
The Mute button usually does the trick in such cases.
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No, not like swearing in person.