Are you stingy?

That is not being stingy...that's them being selfish greedy and lazy. Toys for tots used to be an admirable organization. They took older unbroken toys. made minor repairs and refurbishments and distributed them to needy kids. Now they only want newly purchased toys (and most of them aren't cheap anymore). That kind of stuff only teaches people not to appreciate what they have and can get, instead to expect the best.