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Have you come across people in your life who have hit the jackpot?

Like I know a man from my city whose prospective wife has offered to buy an apartment for them to live in. He does not have to pay a dime.
Would you consider this man lucky or would you consider him an opportunist?
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Peppa · 31-35, F
You hit the jackpot in a situation like that when you both are in harmony. People may say it works because she provides and he's a taker(if he's notoriously known for that). But after a period of time the provider will feel taken advantage of.
What we need to remember is we all actually want to feel true love.
You can't emulate/or fabricate the truth.
He will have to bring more than just a penis to the table.
So it will only last X amount of time until the cracks start to show.

So statements like 'hitting the jackpot' are usually coming from a place of contempt.

Just be happy they're happy and wish them well. Because it's hard to find true love.

Financially he may end up being better off but their emotional well-being will be truly deficient and that's what we should be more worried about.

She's helping a better situation for them both and that's all anyone should see. It's never about self in a relationship. I think that's what people have forgotten in this mad world.