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Would you say anything if you saw a pregnant woman using drugs?

rckt148 · 61-69, M
I have ,and also about drinking
But normally you can't fix stupid
they do not care its about more than just them now

They can cry wow is me when its a preemie and has all kinds of health issues
and born addicted too

but then they use the baby for sympathy ,the baby next to my son when he almost died was born to a Mom like that ,,
She was there for the sympathy visits ,but then the nurses said she left with a different guy every night and most of the time the poor baby was alone
It needed a liver transplant from the life its Mom lived while she was pregnant
So when I see it ,I try to warn them ,,but I have not met one it changed anything
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@puck61 yea sadly I have seen alot of them and a lot of preemie babies to no ones fault ,it just happens
My Ex has one ,who spent a year in the nicU ,,she is 2 just had to have corrective eye surgery ,she was on a vent ,had brain bleeds
a year in a baby ICU is a long time wondering is today the day you lose them .

My grandson is special needs ,he was also a preemie ,,they actually put my son in law in jail accusing him of shaken baby syndrome from him having brain bleeds until a doctor testified this was not unusual with preemies ,but that is a hell of a thing to go through ,your kid is fighting to live and they are blaming its condition on you
When my son was born with a birth defect and almost died on us they blamed his condition on me even thought we had him at the doctors ever single day ,
Some ass called Hrs saying I was neglecting my baby staying strung out on Methadone ,and even thought the hospital said I had nothing to do with my sons condition ,,they made me jump through hoops ,,I was on prescription methadone

How other than God my drug test come back clean of anything ,and they gave me 2 ,
both showed me negative for anything ,so they closed the case on me and then went into trying to put it on my ex ,,we had to have a home study and HRS down our necks too because my ex smokes a "J" when she was discharged ,,
She was drug and alcohol free the whole time she carried him ,,
but she does come from a family of drunks and addicts
I think it was her Grandpa because I would not sell him any of my pain pills
Grandpa was a drug addict .
But now HRS says I have been investigated on so many false charges ,the next one who calls on me ,even on the 800 number and they prove who it was
they are going to jail ,,even the DA said he has never seen so many people say that I am a very good Dad ,they even interviewed my neighbors ,,,
But a real drunk and drug addict ,,they get by with it daily ,,it fires me up .

So for a Mom to not care what she is doing to her baby ,it kills me .

But I have also tried to save kids who's Mom keeps cranking them out
and she stays on drugs ,actually rolls over on one and smothers it to death
and she still gets to keep her other kids ,,she finally lost them and she is in prison where she belongs
she can't say no one helped her ,but why do they let Moms like that keep having kids ?

I let her parents stay here ,her ,and her 4 kids ,and she had another one on the way ,
Getting high and selling her meds for other drugs
I wish now I had stayed out of it and let those kids be adopted sooner
Now they are old enough to hate HRS and the Law ,she taught them that
They lied for her so they are good liars
And now bitter they are not with at least their grandma and grandpa who has pretty much raised them anyway ,but now they are in trouble with the law too .

And all the people who talk trash to me, defending them ,like I don't know
Poor poor them ,I have no clue that they may be going through ????
Excuse me ,,You have no clue the crap those kids are going through
Get your privileged butt out of my face before I forget I am a gentleman

on the subject of parents that should be fixed ,,I am an expert
I have seen moms sell their little girls to get high ,someone else's cars and trucks ,,pimp out their daughters ,,,and this is why I put perverts in jail
Messing with Kids is only one of my pet peeves ,
Moms laid up in a room drugging I can call a wellness check on her
let the cops catch them in the act and they don't need a warrant ,
I sell gas coming from that home or apartment ,they don't need a warrant then .

but drinking while pregnant I can't do anything to stop it I know of
Only speak my peace and hope they listen ,,,but so far ,,none ever have

Good to see you on by the way and sorry I got carried away
this is a subject I have way to much experience with

and way to many think this crap is funny ,,its not
@rckt148 Evil is frustrating. I spent some time with a good friend yesterday, and we spent a long time talking about the fact that the USA is making Sodom and Gomorrah look like complete amateurs. The moral decay in this country is beyond belief. I believe the USA is "Mystery Babylon". Most say it is Rome , but there are so many details describing commerce and the statue of Liberty in New York harbor , etc. It's scary when you read the detail in the major and minor prophets and Revelation. Things have been happening in the last 20 years that are described in detail in Ezekiel and other books; things that have not happened before.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@puck61 If you would like I will give you all the signs and the fulfillment for each stage ,and exactly who has caused the WORLD to oppose God
It has sign that the Usa can't fulfill but she is mentioned

it is so easy to see for those not blinded my the prince of this world
or a subject that can turn my closet Christian friends against me
they do not want to see ,they are stumbling blocks and members of the Lord Lord church "They have seen miracles "
But so did the Lord Lord church ,there is a clear way to know if we love Him
they don't want to hear that either ,,that would require change ,admitting they have also been lead astray ,,,and Peter was not the chief corner stone the builders rejected ,,nor can he raise the dead ,the gates of hell are the grave
It depends on the circumstances and the drugs. It's 'her' body.........right? I mean, the establishment believes it's perfectly fine to kill an unborn baby, since it's actually just a parasite and an inconvenience, so why not get it high? Please note that I am being bitterly facetious about this and not condoning that kind of 'group think'. I've just noticed that the 'establishment' is going full tilt boogie for evil, so I can't do much more than watch and bitch about it from time to time. Immorality and communism are the establishment's vision for the future, and that's probably what we deserve for our complacency. Some of us just need to keep some sackcloth and ashes handy.
Lostpoet · M
@puck61 There is nothing wrong with being concerned with another persons well being, and expressing that concern. I don't mean you should scold and belittle the lady, she obviously has enough problems herself, but dang.
@Lostpoet Yeah, for quite a while I said, " STAND ON THE BLACK LINE ALONGSIDE THE TOILET. DROP YOUR PANTS AND UNDERWEAR TO YOUR ANKLES. LIFT YOUR SHIRT. PRODUCE HALF A CUP OF URINE. DO NOT FLUSH THE TOILET OR RUN THE WATER UNTIL AFTER YOU'VE HEARD YOUR TEST RESULTS AND ARE TOLD TO EXIT." I said this about 100 times a day. I've seen the nightmare. I watched ladies lose their children. I've seen weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth! I know the damage done, especially fentynal and meth! My post reflects a bit of bitterness and fatalism about the issues.
SW-User
No. Nothing I would say would bear any weight on her conscience. If I was positive it was something illegal I'd reach out to the authorities if I truly saw a danger. But beyond that....not really any of my business.
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
yea.... can i have some?
Sadly, it's none of my concern if she wants to kill her child.

I'm sick now and stress makes me worse, so I have to pick all my battles wisely.
GlitterBug · 22-25, F
Yes. I’d call the police and wait for them to arrive. I wouldn’t approach the woman though, druggies can be dangerous.
Lostpoet · M
Hell yeah, what kind a mother would risk messing up their own child's health.
Rain95 · 26-30, M
Yes and if they're drinking or smoking.
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
Damn straight I would.
OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
A stranger, probably not, just don't see many positive outcomes starting a confrontation. A friend yes, see if I can help in some way.
AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F
If she were doing it in public and I saw it, I might call child protective services and let them take care of it.
FurryFace · 61-69, M
no , i figure she knows the risks
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TheSacredOne · 36-40, M
@MarmeeMarch my mother smoked when she was pregnant with me. Worst that happened was I was born prematurely with asthma.
plainly said -- some people should not be parents.

 
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