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Am I deluded?

I'm not ugly but I'm no Miss Universe. Beside the women in my family, some would say I'm the least beautiful. However, I do not feel this, I don't think they're more beautiful than me.

I never look at another woman and wish to look like her or wish to have what she have. I enjoy challenges , be it striving to reach goals I've set or breaking norms within the perimeter of family tradition.

I've had 2 relationships, one lasted 3 years and the other 7 years. When both relationship ended, I completely moved on without looking back, no missing them or wishing to see them. Once I set a target, I move ahead and never look back. Life is so full of wonderful surprises, but our fear of change holds us back.

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Mondayschild · F

Your beauty or lack of had nothing to does not have anything to do with future.

Look for better things. If you are searching for aaye in life just open you eyes to the people outside your own body to find the best person possible.

Random1Thoughts · F

@Mondayschild
Everyone around me rate everything on their looks. I honestly can't see the point in comparing looks.

Like I've mentioned in my post, even in relationship, I have the same zombie attitude. I don't look back, once the relationship is over, I'm done and never look back. My ex once told me that I'm psycho with no feelings.😂

SW-User

Your thoughts ramble. I could barely make heads or tails. Maybe a picture of you and your family? Or maybe just my reassurance that looks aren't everything.

Random1Thoughts · F

@SW-User Just rambling thoughts lingering in my brain.

LyricalOne · F

Why would this make you deluded?

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PilinisesiofParadise · 31-35, F

@Random1Thoughts
I had an aunt that had similar characteristics like yourself. She had similar issues, she ended marrying this handsome Kenyan man. Now she’s the most happiest person in my family. They’re like two peas in a pod. Maybe you need to find an African king to warm you up.

Random1Thoughts · F

@LyricalOne
You're absolutely correct, my emotion takes a backseat when I'm deciding on certain things.

Random1Thoughts · F

@PilinisesiofParadise
Kenya is one of the country I will visit in the future.

PilinisesiofParadise · 31-35, F

Maybe I need to be more like this, I’m always comparing myself with others. Always comparing looks with my sister.

Random1Thoughts · F

@PilinisesiofParadise
I've never had a sister to compare looks with. But I have never wished to look like anyone nor want to have a life of somebody else.

PilinisesiofParadise · 31-35, F

@Random1Thoughts
I’m always pining for my ex’s. it takes me months to get myself back into the groove. My last relationship, took me years and I’m still single. I don’t know how to move on. Maybe you’re not deluded, just a don’t give a fuck attitude.

SW-User

you are ambitious and those people hardly have the time plus you might like the idea of relationship more than the actual thing

Random1Thoughts · F

@SW-User
You're actually spit on, I also have come to the same conclusion. I like the idea of relationship but I don't often enjoy being in one.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

what exactly are you trying to ask me

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