Would you mind being a second wife?
Providing you live in a different country. He can support you but you can be faithful and loyal yet live far away in another continent.
I would totally do it.
I would totally do it.
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dragonfly46 · F
Random1Thoughts · F
@dragonfly46
Totally understandable.
Totally understandable.
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
Random1Thoughts · F
@5thApprentice
In most cases, yes. I will be one of those silent second wives.
In most cases, yes. I will be one of those silent second wives.
5thApprentice · 31-35, M
@Random1Thoughts A silent second wife? Now that sounds a bit more doable. 😂
Random1Thoughts · F
@5thApprentice
I can do all that I need to do, if he remembers me, he can come visit. 😂
I can do all that I need to do, if he remembers me, he can come visit. 😂
I wouldnt even allow it but if i was then i would hate it, i would rather die then be married to a man that has a nother wife.
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Random1Thoughts · F
@Girlyfriendcollecting
No, asking as I don't see him regularly, I'm okay with it.
No, asking as I don't see him regularly, I'm okay with it.
@Random1Thoughts oh, I see. Thats good that you know what you want. then why marry? why not just date your whole life?
Random1Thoughts · F
@Girlyfriendcollecting
Nah, I would only have sexual relation if I'm married.
Nah, I would only have sexual relation if I'm married.
Orca4950 · 70-79, M
@DarlingSelah even if you didn't know about other wife and was surprised at some point when you found out.
Random1Thoughts · F
@DarlingSelah
The benefits outweigh the negatives.
The benefits outweigh the negatives.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
When would you get to be a wife? Would he come for regularly scheduled visits?
SW-User
They cant even be loyal to me as friends, let alone being committed to them
Random1Thoughts · F
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I'm not gonna say no, but most likely not.
Random1Thoughts · F
@Starcrossed
It's worth exploring and researching.
It's worth exploring and researching.
SW-User
Yes.
But I would not beg him to stay if he wanted to walk out.
But I would not beg him to stay if he wanted to walk out.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Nope, I won’t.
Random1Thoughts · F
@mindstruggle
It doesn't fit most people's expectations of marriage.
It doesn't fit most people's expectations of marriage.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@Random1Thoughts is hope you being a disappointment would actually involve you doing negative things not just finding yourself single. But we can’t pick our parents wants
Random1Thoughts · F
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit
I think it would give them that peace of mind that I have somebody when they depart to their final destination. I totally understand where they are coming from.
I think it would give them that peace of mind that I have somebody when they depart to their final destination. I totally understand where they are coming from.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@Random1Thoughts I’m not saying it’s from a negative place. But putting undue pressure on our loved ones can and is here in your situation lead to them leading lives not for them. As parents we had our shot, & we can advise but it’s their life & theirs to pick not anyone else’s. I hope you find what you truly want no matter what it may be. Best of luck to you