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appassionata · 36-40, M
Compassion. And no.

rckt148 · 61-69, M
Kindness is very attractive to me
a tender heart ,as long as its not so tender it gets in the way
a giver ,I put the needs of others before my own ,so I love seeing someone else who is the same way
people who are not so easy to offend ,nothing gets me fired up faster than someone who is offended by everything ,I want to just shake them and say Grow the hell up ,the world is not designed to cater to you
People who do what they say ,and say what they mean ,I love that type of person.
I would rather someone say they don't like me than to pretend they do and talk crap about me behind my back
I like setting those kind of people up ,,and let everyone see who is the back biters and crap stirrers ,,and who are the ones you can take what they say to the bank
When I say set them up ,I only mean get everyone in the same place ,
and then I repeat everything I said ,and let everyone know I am not afraid to say what I said again ,
So everyone knows ,I mean what I say ,and I am not talking anything behind your back ,I have not already said to your face ,
but a coward ,they like that he said she said stuff and the constant drama they stir
Usually its they have no life ,and they thrive on keeping others at odds with each other ,then they can keep running back a two keeping a feud going
I like to expose it for what it is ,,and let everyone see what they play into
I see division as weakness ,and we are only as strong as the weakest link
I like to know who that link is ,,and which people I can count on
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Hi Brother Rick, you’re kinda describing my co-worker. Lol that backstabbing one. :/
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@mindstruggle I love the Brother Rick ,I am honored ,deeply touched .

I am bad about catching those kind in a place where all the concerned parties are there ,not to stir stuff ,but to settle it ,I hate constant conflict .
So I repeat myself ,so everyone knows I did say it
but I am not a back bitter ,I am man enough to say it again
I can't contain things I need to say ,I hate letting things fester
So if I told you that I said something to so and so and you repeat it
your just spreading old news .
But now I also know what you think of me
You would rather stir stuff behind my back ,then to say how you feel to my face .
I earn the love and respect from people who are around me ,
and one way is they know I am an open book ,I am honest ,respectful of others and
I am not pretending to care about you to your face and another thing to your back
If I have a problem with someone I settle it ,and quick
and since I treat people how I want to be treated
Its always with kindness and respect ,admitting I am wrong if I am and trying to make it right ,I am not looking to make myself look good at someone else's expense
My boss once said "You can't stand it for everyone not to like you " and there is some truth to that ,but I know you can't stand for something and please everyone ,but they can't say I did not try to be the peace maker
I try to see good in everyone ,even if they don't love me ,or respect what I stand for ,,then that makes it their problem ,not mine ,I held out the olive branch ,I can't make them take it
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@NickiHijab This is honestly the answer I'd normally give, but I knew someone else would get to it, lol. My favorite thing about my wife is that she has incredible compassion and I really think it's the highest virtue.
NickiHijab · F
@CountScrofula I was certain someone else would too but I stand by it so I went for it anyway. Oh totally. It’s a beautiful quality to have🙂
SW-User
someone who's intelligent but doesn't abuse it by being an egoist, someone who indulges in self love but also self aware too
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
That’s a nic one. Are you like that?
SW-User
@mindstruggle Not an egoist but I am arrogant. less self love with more self awareness
Usually intelligence I always think it’s pretty cool especially math intelligence, and I do not.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Oh dear I suck at Math. 😢
@mindstruggle same , it’s a foreign language to me and I think that’s why I admire people who are great at it.
Dusty101 · F
Someone who isn't a hypocrite.
Also someone who has the ability to make me laugh out loud. I adore wit and I admire anyone who deals with a problem instead of moaning about it.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@Dusty101 Yeah I've always been that way...if there's a problem I just want to fix it and move on as soon as possible.
Dusty101 · F
@indyjoe good on ya... ☺
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@Dusty101 😊
I love how my Dad doesn’t judge others. I try to emulate that.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
:)
User41 · 36-40, M
People with drive.

People that don’t pitty themselves.

People that have the ability to think objectively.

People that laugh at things that other people would get offended or sad over.

People that give me best answer....

Hint hint
User41 · 36-40, M
😢
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
🤗
User41 · 36-40, M
I’m gonna heart you.

But also myself so that I feel better.
Coppercoil · M
Compassion.. I lack it on the outside. On the inside I have lots.. but if it never gets out what's the point?
Coppercoil · M
@mindstruggle social anxiety
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
I see. 😔
Coppercoil · M
@mindstruggle it's my life's greatest tragedy. I really do have so much to give too..
SW-User
Calm, logical, solution oriented, sincere.

I have some of it.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@SW-User
I like those traits! 😌
SW-User
Rokasu · 36-40, M
Respect for others.

You're damn right I don't.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
😱 I thought you do?
Rokasu · 36-40, M
@mindstruggle Maybe I do 🤔
Speaking their mind honestly. I believe I carry that gene also.
Confidence coz i don't have it LOL
Coppercoil · M
@Dewms but you dom so hard here!
@Coppercoil coz even my actual name Doms lmao
kate21 · 26-30, F
Maturity without being serious all the time.
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
do you have that quality as well?
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
usually
indyjoe · 56-60, M
Common sense, sense of humor, honesty, tact, empathy and compassion, imagination and/or creativity, patience and understanding...just to name a few. I believe I have these to one degree or another.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Integrity. Doing the right thing when nobody is watching, or doing the right thing at personal cost. And I try with mixed results, lol. But at least I try.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@CountScrofula lol at mixed results. That’s quite a rare quality tbh.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@mindstruggle Yeah, it's why I mentioned it. We all need to be pragmatic to some extent, but I find a lot of people compromise their values or won't speak up when they need to because it's just easier to go with the flow.

God I sound like I'm vaguebooking. But you get what I mean.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
😊👍🏻
SW-User
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
:)
Being non judgemental based on understanding ...

I'd love to have that quality..
@mindstruggle aww!! 🤗🤗❤️
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Soossie I see those quality in you tbh. 🤗
@mindstruggle

You are so kind to me... unfortunately, I caught myself judging sometimes... but I thank you for your kind words..
MougyWolf · 36-40, M
A sense of adventure, that spark in their pupils that would indicate that they're full of soul and life, that devious grin that would speak volumes. Someone who is.. wild. =)

and yes.
SW-User
Intelligence. Is dimples a quality? 😊

I don't know if I have intelligence, but I'm probably not that dumb. I don't have dimples. Tears.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Lol okay. :D
SW-User
Someone who doesn't care about a billion dollars, but enlightens a billion brains.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
You put it nicely.
Sarah123 · F
being able to laugh about yourself... and yeah i do that all the time
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Integrity and confidence.

Is like to think I have those qualities.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
SW-User
Honesty. Most of the time because I suck at lying
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@SW-User 😊🤗
SW-User
Reject · 26-30, M
Empathy! And I think so. I certainly try to! ^^
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Yay!
integrity, compassion, intelligence, passion.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
:)
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
A strong, persistent personal drive.

I think so.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
That’s nice. :)
SW-User
The laid back quality .... no too nervous *_*
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Yeah that too.
Integrity, loyalty, honesty and kindness.

I try.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Same. :)
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@mindstruggle Very underrated i always feel.☺
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Picklebobble2 I feel the same.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
Confidence. Personable.

I don't.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Oh. :/
UndercoverBard · 31-35, M
Loyalty. I do have that quality too
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Wiseacre · F
Perseverance..yes!
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@Wiseacre Nice! :D
SW-User
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
:)
SW-User
Patience...
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@mindstruggle Alright 🤔 Perhaps you can aspire to be like that :)

Are you honest? 😏
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
@MartinTheFirst I’d like to think so.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@mindstruggle very humble 🐨👍

 
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