I wish more people realised video games can ruin your life

Well gamers definetly wont,because they're most probably gonna act like butthurt snowflakes defending their ground instead of facing the harsh reality video games bring the worst in you,not only ruining your life,but ruining you as a human being.Probably people just gonna bash me for this but I dont care,for me that's what video games did,I dont play because I dont want to,I quitted because I had to,i've been to a point when I thought,what my life could have been if I didn't wasted so much time playing games,I would have had more friends,a job,a gf,it just pissed me off to know how much I missed,all I got was loneliness,depression,sadness,being a douche to my familly and everyone I knew,maybe video games have a different impact on others but I think the effect is the same,many trolls and rude people are gamers,and in my point of view it has to do because of that.