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The first one. What you think, feel and ponder are important. Alright?
SW-User
@Allelse for me it’s like why ask me to be here if u already know what the answer is and u just want me to side with you .. and when I say something heartfelt it’s
Like it falls on deaf ears
Like it falls on deaf ears
Allelse · 36-40, M
@SW-User Because they want validation that they're the centre of the fucking universe. Like that idiot I work with!!! I'd like to jam her head into the fucking wall. Everything is about them, you, me, we dont matter; what we think, feel and ponder dont matter because to them, all that matters is that they feel validated and important.
SW-User
@Allelse thank you!! I needed to hear that
NotYetTooOld · 61-69, M
@SW-User Oddly enough I had this discussion with my wife earlier this evening. I'll be in the middle of a sentence and she will just ride over what I'm saying with whatever her current thought is, often not related at all to what I was originally telling her. It makes me feel as if she thinks that nothing I say is half as important as whatever whim just flitted through her head.
Allelse · 36-40, M
@SW-User I'm glad to help and not just because I have a soft spot for you. ☺ Because what I said applies to us all, which is why its important to listen to one and other even if you dont always agree.