Is it wrong to hate the mother of your children?

I would say rather then investing the energy into hate invest it into something more positive and let her absence speak to your kids in its own way. My father was never in my life, i have never met him... But that didnt cause my mother to speak ill of him... When i asked questions she did the best to answer with facts over feelings... Like i said if you want to talk more in depth you can message me... 😊