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How do you get over someone who is toxic but you still love?

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ImTheOne · M
Oh u never do get over them.. Srry
SW-User
Some don’t - some do @ImTheOne
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@ImTheOne Pft, yes you do. It may not be your experience to, but yes, it is very much possible.
ImTheOne · M
@SW-User @PerfectionOfTheHeart not when their toxic... Tss. As if
SW-User
Especially if they’re are toxic pfft lol 😆 @ImTheOne
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@ImTheOne What she said.
ImTheOne · M
Oo ladys,ladys..
Tisk tisk tisk.. Its aparent that either of u has never been in a toxic relationship @SW-User @PerfectionOfTheHeart
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@ImTheOne ....🙄. Why? Because we both persevered over letting toxic people rule us? Because we refused to give toxic people complete power over us when they didn’t even deserve to share a breath of the same air as us? Naw, hunny. That don’t deserve our ounce of our time when it’s decided that life is better without them. There’s no love lost there. There’s nothing left to hold onto and we simply move forward with our bruises...which will heal... our wounded heart...which will also heal...and the knowledge to be able to spot it quicker next time.
ImTheOne · M
[@[b][c=#003BB2]PerfectionOfTheHeart[/c][/b]] wait... Bruises? Thats not toxic thats abusive
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@ImTheOne I didn’t mean physical bruises. Internal scaring is very much a thing.
SW-User
@PerfectionOfTheHeart he knows exactly what you mean he’s playing you now - ignore lol
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@SW-User I didn’t want to assume he was that ignorant, but...ya know.
ImTheOne · M
[@[b][c=#003BB2]PerfectionOfTheHeart[/c][/b]] its hard when its the first love
SW-User
ImTheOne · M
Dam...
Like that? @PerfectionOfTheHeart @SW-User tss
ImTheOne · M
I did think physical bruising... That makes me ignorant.?
ImTheOne · M
@SW-User y u mixing things up?
ImTheOne · M
[@[b][c=#003BB2]PerfectionOfTheHeart[/c][/b]] for the record... I wasnt playing anyone. @SW-User
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@ImTheOne I meant ignorant to the internal effects a toxic relationship can bring.

The first love can be hard to get over because it was the first time our heart experienced Love on that level, but if they turned out to be toxic then you really shouldn’t hold onto the cord that connects their heart to yours. They don’t deserve to be connected to you if they caused you pain. Sever it and the healing will begin.

Regardless, peace be with you.
ImTheOne · M
[@[b][c=#003BB2]PerfectionOfTheHeart[/c][/b]] and also with you