What would you do if your gf/bf was doing cocaine, hiding it and lying about it for the majority of a 2 year relationship

@Qwerty14 In most places if the person doesn't want to go you can't make them

@Backwoodsman2 Okay then call the cops, let them go to court and get the judge to force them.

Really after 2 years if you don't love someone enough to help them out then you should leave. I hope the OP makes the right call here

@Qwerty14 Again in many states that is easier said than done. Laws vary a lot between the states.

@Backwoodsman2 Cool. I dont assume people are talking about the US. Personally I have no clue how your insane healthcare system works. But I'd assume people can be arrested for cocaine possession and told to seek help from a judge?

@Qwerty14 Some states and cities have drug courts. Other states have law where people can be forced into mental hospitals. Also. Most rehabs will not take someone until they are medically stable for at least 24 to 72 hours depending on their medical conditions> And by the way it is not my system I am Quebecois

@Backwoodsman2 Your account says United States lol rehabs are always underfunded and can't have too many crazies wasting their time. I think a minimum period to wait is a fine rule. Can spend that time reflecting in the jail haha

@Qwerty14 Not from what I have seen, jail will not take them if they are not medically stable

@Backwoodsman2 How medically unstable will a coke addict that hasn't shown signs big enough for her boyfriend to notice be exactly?

@Qwerty14 I am just saying how if is done I am not saying right or wrong ,d'accord? (french)

@Backwoodsman2 Haha thanks for telling me it is french. Id hope most English speakers know basic words like d'accord

@Qwerty14 Not trying to insult. There are many on this site whose native language is not English, so I don't assume. As my native language is not English, but Cree and French