Why are women expected to remove every damn hair on them ?

If it wasn't meant to be there it wouldn't grow...it's natural. That said, It is purely a personal preference and choice. In some cultures women don't remove body hair and they don't have a problem with it. In the winter when she wears long pants most of the time, my wife doesn't shave her leg very often. They do not look or feel bad either. She doesn't shave her under arms as often either, and I see nothing "unsightly" about the shadow that appears (in fact it's hardly even noticeable). As for her pubic region...she likes it either just trimmed short or bare...whatever she's in the mood for. I like it either way myself. In alot of ethnic groups the women have a slightly dark hair on their upper lip and it is actually considered attractive and exotic. Some American and European women have it too and they consider it ugly, disgusting, even "freakish". Society and culture set and dictate the standards of beauty that we often adhere to, so again it's still a personal choice which should be respected no matter what direction it goes.