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If you're grown and calling people out for being 'fake' because you haven't seen a particular side to them, you probably have a lot more growing up to

do.
In my opinion, being fake is contradicting yourself or lying to someone for whatever motive and unless this side you're not familar with is completely and totally out of character, I don't see it being an issue of being "fake"
We're not cartoon characters that are to hold one persona and remain consistent with just that. Different people bring out different sides to us, just like different experiences form different reactions.

It's like witnessing your quietest friend screaming during a fire? Lol Every circumstance brings out different sides to us. Tying people down when they're exploring more sides to themselves, by stamping them with the label 'fake' is dumb.
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room101 · 51-55, M
I agree with @Serenitree. There is a big difference between being multi-faceted and pretending to be something that we are not.

Admittedly, sometimes that pretence is sub-conscious and could be driven by a simple desire for acceptance or whatever. I can accept that and would try to reassure that person that it's unnecessary. However, somebody who is willfully putting on an act........sorry. I have no time for those types of people.

On the subject of people being multi-faceted, I think that there are varying degrees and yes, it can be extremely frustrating when we don't know where a person stands on anything or on how to basically deal with them. But, isn't it boring to be with flat, one-dimensional people lol.
Serenitree · F
@room101 Multifaceted people are fun and interesting. But do not stand in front of me Telling me you don't know where I live while you're in my door, blocking my way in and expect me to not only believe you, but to apologize for disturbing you.
room101 · 51-55, M
@Serenitree I had to read that second sentence three times.

1st time was 🤔
2nd time was 😂😂😂
3rd time.....👊