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room101 · 51-55, M
I agree with @Serenitree. There is a big difference between being multi-faceted and pretending to be something that we are not.
Admittedly, sometimes that pretence is sub-conscious and could be driven by a simple desire for acceptance or whatever. I can accept that and would try to reassure that person that it's unnecessary. However, somebody who is willfully putting on an act........sorry. I have no time for those types of people.
On the subject of people being multi-faceted, I think that there are varying degrees and yes, it can be extremely frustrating when we don't know where a person stands on anything or on how to basically deal with them. But, isn't it boring to be with flat, one-dimensional people lol.
Admittedly, sometimes that pretence is sub-conscious and could be driven by a simple desire for acceptance or whatever. I can accept that and would try to reassure that person that it's unnecessary. However, somebody who is willfully putting on an act........sorry. I have no time for those types of people.
On the subject of people being multi-faceted, I think that there are varying degrees and yes, it can be extremely frustrating when we don't know where a person stands on anything or on how to basically deal with them. But, isn't it boring to be with flat, one-dimensional people lol.
Serenitree · F
@room101 Multifaceted people are fun and interesting. But do not stand in front of me Telling me you don't know where I live while you're in my door, blocking my way in and expect me to not only believe you, but to apologize for disturbing you.
room101 · 51-55, M
@Serenitree I had to read that second sentence three times.
1st time was 🤔
2nd time was 😂😂😂
3rd time.....👊
1st time was 🤔
2nd time was 😂😂😂
3rd time.....👊