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It kills me

We are 4 gals in our family and am the last born but mum always ignore me because am not successful than my 3 sisters!! Remember we have different fathers me and them!! I'm still staying with my aunt and I can provide for myself though I don't own big businesses, I don't drive like my sisters, but whenever I call mum she will never receive my calls, she is always like (nothing sensible I can say because am poor) I don't know what to say or do for her my hrt is melting.I went to visit her and found my elder sister at home and when ever I told to talk to mom she changes the topic and call my other sister. I gave her a gift but I found She gave it to her house maid. What should I do for her so that she can also see me as her daughter.I have always kept this has a secret all my life and keep saying to my self that she will one day love me and be proud of me.I always cry everyday she doesn't call me or text me yet she talks to my sisters all the time . Why me
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Cinderella -your the scape goat child, there's nothing you can do and it's not your fault.
Sarahblack · 31-35, F
@Sarahblack you need to do some research to give yourself closure. I don't know your mother but these types of behaviours don't normally change and you'll be forever trying to gain her approval and love and not getting it which is one of the most painful and cruel things that can happen to a person. Parents have alot of power and every capibilty of violating it. Your left confused because your the target. You might have to grieve what you did not have and be your own parent from the inside 🤗
Sarahblack · 31-35, F
@MushroomFaerie I really can't stop crying. Am stressed and started to hate my self
@Sarahblack that's what happens when you don't get what every child deserves. I'm so sorry. It might help if you google daughters of narcisstic mothers, sounds like your mother has some traits at the least.
Sarahblack · 31-35, F