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Have you ever had a close relationship (friend, family, partner) with a narcissist?

It is a never ending battle that you can never win since the rules are constantly changed by them

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WildHeart · 41-45, F

Yes I was married to him.

AliceMortem · 31-35, F

@WildHeart Wow if you don't mind me asking how long were you together? And did the idealisation phase last until you two married?

WildHeart · 41-45, F

@AliceMortem We lasted 10 year's, lets just say I got 3 beautiful kids out of all these years, but he messed me up so terribly that since the marriage ended I have spent 5 years alone with no intentions of ever letting anyone else close to me.

AliceMortem · 31-35, F

@WildHeart I am sorry to hear that. Like you said at least you have your children, but the damage done is immense

WildHeart · 41-45, F

@AliceMortem Thank you and yes at least I have my babies.

SW-User

@WildHeart sorry for whatever you had to go through. 10 years is pretty long. Happy that it’s long gone and you’re happy with your kids 🤗

WildHeart · 41-45, F

@SW-User Name change I see :)

Thank you for that heartfelt response.

SW-User

@WildHeart yes. Change is constant. Lol

You’re welcome. Everyone go through trauma in life. I can relate to it. Mine no way close to yours. Take care. :)