I’m attracted to older woman physically 40+ &but I connect with younger woman mentally (20+) cause I’m a kid at heart is that normal?

look for an older woman who's been in a coma for 20 years

I guess you like younger women who are still energetic and lively not complaining about life things is what I think and nothing wrong with that either.

Mybwife is 18 years older than me. Most of my friends are either 10+ years older, or 15 years or so younger.
It's pretty normal to me.

I'm the opposite lol

Sure.