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Can I unbestfriend?

I had a guy bestfriend for almost 3 yrs. We have a very clean relationship and it feels like I can't live without him. Until 2017 came and gradually everything has change. We both knew our flaws but it seems like when he knew mine, something change. We are still good friends especially at college but it was unlike before. It feels like we're just classmates/friends now? not a bestfriend thing. lately I knew he was calling someone "bestfriend" too. Am I jealous or what? but it feels sucks. I still try to get back to our old relatioship but he's too busy. Anyway...
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TexChikF
Did he perhaps want more ? Maybe a romantic relationship with you and you unwittingly shot him down . Now to save face and avoid embarrassment , he is distancing himself ? Men CANT have a long term close friend relationship with a woman and NOT want to make it romantic/sexual . The fact that he suddenly has grown cold to you without an explanation suggests my theory shouldn鈥檛 be completely ignored . Good luck 馃榿
HuckleberryFriend26-30, F
@TexChik nopesss, we don't like eachother since then.
HuckleberryFriend26-30, F
@TexChik nope, we don't like each other since then.
TexChikF
@HuckleberryFriend aww , well I鈥檓
Sorry you are going through this , losing a friend is a gut wrenching affair. It makes you second guess yourself ... but it鈥檚 he who has the problem .
HuckleberryFriend26-30, F
@TexChik maybe