Who’s done this in a relationship...

I hope I don’t do this but I’ve already stopped texting often ,yet now she sends them more ..... retarded I feel even stupid putting myself into this position.I want my macho attitude back and for whatever reason I can’t with her.I can’t even pretend not to give a fuck it doesn’t work .Ridiculous feeling

I'm going through some distant cousin of this, someone from my past reached out to reconcile but I fear we're not on the same page and I can't say I'm afraid of falling, that happened long ago and I just couldn't really let go, I'm afraid of opening myself back up for loss grief again.

I think this probably means you should work on yourself before considering any other relationship of sorts.

Some people feel that relationships provide completion in the self.. it’s actually supposed to be enhancement. You are well capable of attaining completion yourself.

I would guess most people have done this at some point in their lives.

The instinct for self-protection is a strong one.

Skxhsiv nsodjh

I've done this

Yep.