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BonkerBandar · 31-35, M
Reply - "ok, send me your user manual"

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I get them a lot too. I don't see anything wrong with it. Though I'd greatly prefer if they started with a specific topic 'cause it seems kinda stalkerish otherwise, especially if it's from a much older guy
Maybe, if you didn't receive so many you might feel differently. Maybe it's just simply because you know you will continue to receive these types of messages it is so easy for you to delete them.

At least they are being polite and being honest in expressing their desire to get to know you. I don't think it requires you to respond, deleting their message and not responding will tell them all they need to know about you.
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@CesareBorgia Except I keep receiving them.
@SW-User Then maybe you should include in your profile that you don't appreciate those types of messages. If you make it clear that you don't like receiving messages from guys, then a lot of them will not message you.

Is it the fact that the message is worded that way, or that you want them to say more in their first message to you?

If you say something like "I don't wish to receive messages that say simply "Hello, I'd like to get to know you"" then most of those messages will stop, but you have to also expect that they will word their messages differently and still probably message you.

If you say that you don't wish to receive messages from guys, then most will stop.
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Actually, I'm still naive.. I used to respond to "Hi" and regretted it.. I'm still learning..
Strawberry9999 · 31-35, F
I still haven't learned 😂@SW-User
popmol · 26-30, M
i talk to them :p it doesn't happen often.
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I swear I have seen that sentence like a dozen times and it followed by an angry man ranting that you're not quick enough
Pretty sure that's code for, "Want to see my dic pic."
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@ShadowedWhispers Dyke Van Dick
@SW-User Just what ya wanted?
Sazzio · 36-40, M
Ah if you do reply chances are they'll give you their email account. If you email then they'll make up a cooky story and ask you for your bank account details... Back in the days I used to get such messages on other forums that are now long gone. 😂 used to "Read" them in a Nigeria accent.
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@Sazzio I'm not rich. They'd be sorely disappointed!
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nah.. i dont get messages.. or random messages.. if i had talked with them in q and a that would be fine.. some random stranger nope
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@SW-User That's exactly how I feel.
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Nope. Or "get to know me in public by commenting on stories and questions. Maybe we'll see about private someday if you're not a freak"
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@SW-User Yes. Let's see how you do publicly before you try pubic-ly.
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@SW-User haha yes. 😁
sogdianrock · 61-69, M
hi Peekaboo
good response to publish them here and not reply!
Best wishes
:)
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sogdianrock · 61-69, M
hi Peekaboo
yours is a good response to publish the message them here and for you to not reply!
Best wishes
:)
Elegy · 46-50
Does that mean that I will not be getting to know you? :/
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@Elegy You sent them?
Elegy · 46-50
@SW-User No, that's the joke. 🤣
Elegy · 46-50
@SW-User I would never send a message like that. 🤦🏻
Classified · M
I've answered all of them!
Though I do get about ten less of those than you do each month. :?
Rhonda · F
Yes I just got one from curvedstallion and another recently from newtrier77
Ballora · 26-30, F
@Rhonda im pretty sure newtrier77 was a troll🤔
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
Hello, I'd like to get to know you. ;)
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@Socialclutz Hello, I'd like to get to blow you. Haha not.
Socialclutz · 36-40, M
😳 😒My disappointment though 🤣 😂
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
No, if a stranger messages me without just asking a question I usually ignore it
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Yeah, I would love to get a message like that :(
Ballora · 26-30, F
That message is familiar....😒
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Looks familiar 😆
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Ive gotten them also
summersong · F
I don't even open those
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okaybut · 56-60, M
Maybe...I would go with the conversation a bit and see where it goes. That for me really is the purpose of why we are here. The ability to express yourself and seek affiliation.
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I get "hey I like your art" followed closely by "here's my dick"
NotYourPepper · 41-45, F
i delete those
YoMomma ·
No.. Where im from thats just a line that means i wanna get in your pants
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@YoMomma I'm a nudist. There's no getting into my pants.
YoMomma ·
They wanna do you :)
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
I get then from young women in Ghana. Maybe I'm a father figure to them? It's not my sex appeal or good looks that's for sure!
They're all from me!
Raine · F
Darkhorse, a man from Pakistan has sent me this message
SoftServe · 31-35, M
Yes I would say hello I'd not like to get to know you.
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Is that the guy that calls you a dumb bitch if you don't answer?
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@SW-User I have no idea.

 
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