The taboo and danger of being caught I guess

i guess for some people cheating is like an excitement for them or a thrill. they know they are doing wrong yet the excitement of not getting caught or trying not to get caught.

I'm not sure we can control what turns us on....

I think for many, it's the thrill of not getting caught

It appeares pretty sexy in movies ...
At least at first ..
How bored and cold the couple is towards each other ..
Then the new one comes along...
Fire works ...

And then comes the pain...

It isn't.

did someone actually say that's sexy?

I think sexy is the wrong word in that sentence.

I've known a couple of people who think it's sexy for their wife or husband to have sex with someone else, either while watching or not watching. But I've never asked them if they consider that cheating or not...

Who in the world thinks that ? Maybe they don't consider it cheating.

I'd imagine for few if they are upset with their partner maybe feeling controlled or ignored. They feel a sense of excitement getting away with something without their partner knowing. Or also the so there feeling of someone giving them the affection their significant other has not been. It is immature and selfish but those are what I'd imagine.