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What gives you the right to judge other people?

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SW-User
Good question. Those who do often haven't accepted themselves,project traits they feel uncomfortable with into others
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User How is that related to judgment at all?
Egg01 · 56-60, F
@SW-User Good answer, I think that's true
SW-User
@SW-User Yes, I think that's true..

@BlueMetalChick I think she's talking about the people that keeps judging others for their own problems.. Not about judgment in general..
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User Well then that's just false judgement.
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick The question seems to be pointing out people the judge with no right.. So, that's a valid answer for another valid meaning of the question
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick You've got huge issues unaddresed, judge others like crazy, sadly
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User I have huge issues because I can form an opinion of another person? It sounds like you have huge issues if you can't. That's a basic social skill that anyone who interacts with other humans will exhibit even as a child. Are you developmentally challenged? It's sad, really.
SW-User
SW-User
@SW-User @BlueMetalChick Did you both have earlier problems with each other? or what am I missing?

I don't think @BlueMetalChick judge others like crazy based on her posts and comments..
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User No, We haven't really interacted much.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User "Oh boy" isn't much of a response. Wanna try that again?
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick I guess you both just want some coffee or something..😄☕☕
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User Nah I don't drink coffee, unless it's espresso.

Notice the hypocrisy though. She says "Those who do often haven't accepted themselves,project traits they feel uncomfortable with into others."
Then follows it up by telling me I have "huge issues unaddressed and judge people like crazy."
Huh. Telling a stranger who you know nothing about that they have huge issues? Doesn't that sound a little...judgmental?
It's always the self-proclaimed "nonjudgmental" people who are the [i]most[/i] judgmental. They feel a need to separate themselves from others by saying they're better because they don't judge, but in reality, they're only saying that because they're insecure and need a reason to hide it.
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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@049AbjectTestament Yes but see that's what nonjudgmental means, it means "I condemn others for judgement but if you condemn me for judgment, then I say you're wrong."
SW-User
@SW-User I needed sleep! ;) No judgement BlueMetalChic
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick We might be understanding judging in different ways. I'm a psychologist, or was - academic - until made redundant. I see a lot of projection here, and judging rather than supporting - this is what I believe Eggyegg was meaning (but there is some great support too). Anyway BlueMetalChick, no judgement
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User I'm an astronomer, so psychology is not my strong suit.
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick Great subject area! Interesting :)