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Ever realize that a friend was never a friend?

A former friend has never hearted or responded to any of my posts. She's only interested in how much attention her zillion posts get. No loss there!
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Serenitree · F Best Comment
I had a friend, in real life, for ten years. Until one day she said and did something so hurtful, I started examining our relationship and realized, I was her friend, but she NEVER saw herself as my friend. She never thought of me as a friend. I was a fool. I stopped that day, and I have never explained why I stopped answering her calls or returning calls when she left messages.
SW-User
@Serenitree I had a best friend who suddenly called me an embarrassment to her new friends. I've never spoken to her since.
Serenitree · F
@SW-User I get that. She had never really been your friend. She had a friend in you, but she was no friend. I'm sure she's got no more loyalty to the new *friends* either.
SW-User
@Serenitree I later realized that whenever we hung out together my life turned into a mess. Her awful put-down woke me up to what a bad influence she had on me.
Serenitree · F
@SW-User now you are FREE. Free of that negative influence. Free to grow and be whom you know you can be.
SW-User
@Serenitree I have better friends now.