I had a friend, in real life, for ten years. Until one day she said and did something so hurtful, I started examining our relationship and realized, I was her friend, but she NEVER saw herself as my friend. She never thought of me as a friend. I was a fool. I stopped that day, and I have never explained why I stopped answering her calls or returning calls when she left messages.
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SW-User
@Serenitree I later realized that whenever we hung out together my life turned into a mess. Her awful put-down woke me up to what a bad influence she had on me.
Serenitree · F
@SW-User now you are FREE. Free of that negative influence. Free to grow and be whom you know you can be.

SW-User
@Serenitree I have better friends now.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Unfortunately it has happened to me as well
sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
Yup, there's a lot of people on here like that.

SW-User
This might read better if you said, 'ever realized that once who you thought as a friend was never a friend'?

SW-User
@SW-User once who you thought?

SW-User
@SW-User That's what a friend would be if you are realizing they are not, now. Phrasing, only.
Serenitree · F
@SW-User maybe, "who you once thought was a friend". That seems more likely

SW-User
Lot of those on here ,self obsorbed .......
Degbeme · 70-79, M
😥
CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M
What's the point? Not like she's running a business or part of a brand. 🙄
Some1Else · M
Is she "distinctive" or different
and gets her attention from that?
and gets her attention from that?
TheProphet · M
Who is it?

SW-User
@TheProphet Someone who shall stay nameless and muted.
ListenAndLearn · 26-30, M
um, cool.

SW-User
yeah lost a couple of online friends that werent really friends. some of them turned out to be pathetic when you find out their true nature. because of the masks they worn. sadly i still really care for one asshole.

SW-User
@SW-User Too true. And in this case the attention hound is all about the 'get' and never the 'give'.

SW-User
yeh they are usually that way. self centered