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TheArcheress · 31-35, F
I had a bully or two. They crossed a big line one day and tried to make things sexual. One broken nose and rib later and they never bothered me again. I have my vengeful moments.

whateverhappens · 26-30, F
yes, all they can do is watch me now as they live struggling lives.. such a pity
MellyMel22 · F
Luckily I wasn't, but I was tested in the 5th grade and in 9th in my new school. The first made threats and jumped me from behind, but didn't expect to be flipped and have her face smashed into concrete several times. People see that kinda thing and know to stay away. The other time an older girl thought her size would scare me off and cornered me in a deep doorway after pushing me with a big crowd of girls surrounding her. I pushed her back and she fell in shock as I told her city girls aren't afraid of big hicks and that she was to stay away from my friend she was bullying or she'd be sorry. Her crowd of friends were laughing at her.

I know violence isn't always the answer, but self defense is when a bully gets physical. My passive kid was bullied for years until he finally did what I told him and the kid and others never attempted it again.
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@MellyMel22 I wish I had the courage to respond when it happened to me..but I never knew how. My dad was the biggest pacifist ever and pretty much a pussy...so I didn't know how to respond in situations like that. I just took it. And it made me hate myself for it.
MellyMel22 · F
@SW-User My father taught us to always defend ourselves, but never throw the first hit. He also threatened to beat out asses if we didn't defend ourselves if someone put their hands on us. So it wasn't a difficult choice.

I'm sorry it wasn't easy for you.
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@MellyMel22Guess you had a better dad than I did. But c'est la vie. Parents are flawed human beings at the end of the day and try their best.
MougyWolf · 36-40, M
Very much so. =(
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I'm sorry. 💖
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No, but there was one guy who bullied everyone and at times try to bully me, after that we became friends, and he changed. It's unbelievable because I discovered that he was the best friend to everyone after that, and generally a great guy.
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I guess people really can change.
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@SW-User yeah, it happens especially if the person is still of young age. Young misguided people do silly stuff, especially when they don't receive proper guidance from their parents.
Mert5356 · 41-45, M
Middle and high school; one of the more notorious ones asked me to forgive him on Facebook years later (and I did).
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I was daily. Because of one incident. I may never get to be a dad.
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
@SW-User that is awful
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Yes, I grew up very poor and was never dressed right. It made me a target.
By people at school or my age no.
Zoranna · F
No, fortunately.
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
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a time or two
Skyline470 · 31-35, M
oh, tons lol
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heavily as a teen.. i was the quiet. thin goody good. i was constantly harassed every fricken day.. that led to depression and isolation.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Brains were easy, braun not so much. Around 5th grade I knew I was in trouble if I didn't have more physical/athletic skill. My outlet was wrestling. I did ok, even went on to start in D1 in college for two years.

In our generation, fights were not uncommon. Now it all seems to be about keyboard courage. Pathetic tbh.
Stellen · 36-40, M
No I was brought up to believe violence does in fact solve problems sometimes.

Even if you lose the actual fight. Break their nose. You won't be worth picking on anymore.
Not exactly. I was just a massive loser according to the social hierarchy.
abe182 · 51-55, M
Yes in middle school. I put out a hit on the bully with money for a carton of camels to an eighth grader. Never had a problem since.
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@abe182 lmao. damn you were an evil genius even in middle school. or maybe you had money so you could afford that shit.
abe182 · 51-55, M
@SW-User thanks! It was $8 back then.
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Weinerschnitzel · 26-30, M
Yep...always got talked "fag" or "gay" because I haven't hit puberty in middle school.
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Two bitches in middles school. They were such cunts.
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Yes, terribly. 😡 Now that I'm not a toothpick and a pussy..I'd love to go back there and beat the shit out of them.
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yes by some bitches .. definitely loose cunts
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@SW-User just come out and say what you really feel! 😂
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@Shutterbug i did lol .. i still am angry at them .. sorry for the language :(
Shutterbug · 56-60, M
@SW-User lol....that's ok...was just teasing......😎

 
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