On a site like this, isn't it kinda suspicious when a person wants to know your name right from the start?

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@SW-User Your Irish? That means you have that cool/sexy accent!😊 sorry don't mean to pester!

It is pretty exciting though! 👍@NigelDoes

It's all gonna work out for you bro. An acquaintance of my cousins friends bosses son's nephew's friend is supposedly a multimillionaire now simply for responding to an email from that very same Nigerian Prince.

@NigelDoes so exciting! He must have multiple inheritances!

Exactly!

I've been judged HARSHLY on here, for not revealing my true identity. I've been dropped like a hot potato. You name it....I wonder, if they come to know the real me...how would they take it.

Exactly. 😂

Well for a female it's weird when a guy asks. Like just start a conversation based on something you saw me post. A name isn't important

I've never asked but I have volunteered mine in PM and usually the other person gives theirs too but it would feel tacky asking TBH. @Motleycrue667

Did he use the same pictures as on the dating site?
'Cause, quite frankly. Search 'sarah' on facebook, in Seattle. and let me know if you find me.

That might be more difficult since Seattle is larger than the little town I live in.

@Motleycrue667 When I lived in a small town I was more guarded on what i would share. But not with my first name. Besides being very common, if they don't know what town you live in, its a bit easier to not worry.
Also, if i don't trust them I just lie and tell them my name is Lilly. Its not as though it matters in the end, they rarely stick around long enough to learn it to be anything but what I told them.

@Motleycrue667 I consider the people I friend here to be real friends. I've traveled to meet some of them and talked to others by phone.

@TheProphet well for a single woman it's not safe. If I met someone on here that started out actually talking and starting an interesting conversation then a few messages later they asked my name that's fine. I've been on this site and dating sites enough to know it's suspicious when a guy randomly messages you and all they want to know is your name and nothing else. It's weird

@Motleycrue667 I can see your point. I often PM people, mostly women, to chat. I always introduce myself just as I would in real life.

@NigelDoes I take the post to mean asking right away what my name is...without getting to know the me at all

Oh I see what you mean. That's understandable.

@NigelDoes she might not mean that at all Nigel🙄