Now i know why i have no friends

Almost everyone is so full of themselves that each conversation has to turn into a condescending battle and people just love to patronize you based on their childhood trauma and insecurities. I do not want and i shall not engage im such relations. Instead of looking at others through this lense of threath and fully ignoring and disowning their shadow maybe they should try to learn something from others or just leave them alone. Communities which force us to obey their conventions are just destroying our individuality, so if youre different, youll just going to be judged and looked down upon. Yes ive been reading Carl Jung and he is 100% right.

RockinPop54 · M

I know exactly how you feel.
I have been dealing with people like that my entire life!
Especially in my own family.
The only difference for me is that I found a group of people who accept me as I am, they don't judge me at all. They only support me.
This group of people is at my local Assemblies Of God church.
I can tell them anything and the worst they say is they will pray for me.

RockinPop54 · M

@beetlebumdont Just make sure it's a "non-judgmental" church. denominational ones like Catholic, Baptist, Methodist ... etc. tend to be judgmental. That's one reason I went to an Assemblies Of God church. No judgment, just support & prayer an the music is EXTREMELY uplifting!!

Matt85 · 36-40, M

yeah that happens a lot
i try to work with it from a humble POV
but also have risen to the occasion, on occasion, and counted all my achievements, so to get on their level
so i became like them
i dont know if i like that version of matt85