Step Son will not work nor want. He expects his mother and I to pay for everything and puts nothing into the house.

His mother always sticks up for him and is always buying him clothes and treats...it beggar's belief. We are going through difficult times ourselves as she is the only one in the house with a job, in fact she has three but I am unable to work as I am a poet and an author and I cannot let work interfere with my muse. Perhaps this is why I feel a little annoyed as my wife should be supporting me through my artistic phase and not spending time on her freeloading son. In fact, she even askes me to help out...just yesterday she asked me to organise his 10th birthday party...You could have knocked me over with a feather but what am I to do? My only course of action is to find another less selfish woman to take care of me, thoughts?