How would you feel about your SO hanging out with an old flame without you there with them?

That would be inappropriate.

Not ok with me.

That's not happening. With or without me.
Old flames need to fade away.

If you can’t have trust in a relationship, you’re finished

That would never happen

Wouldn't be a fan of it

NO

If I trust him completely and they are just doing a one time dinner I’d be okay with it.

Nope. If they want to hang with an old flame, they can go ahead and turn off this flame.

Nope not happenin' 😑

I would be really angry they have no business hanging out with an old flame if they are with me and I know they wouldn't disrespect me like that if they really loved me

Not cool. Happened to me throughout my entire marriage until the shithead died. Only I didn't know it. Till I'm in my 60s. Still haven't gotten closure on that one.

I would feel like it's time for a divorce because I would find it very disrespectful.

It wouldnt happen because she lives elsewhere. What does happen is women who pour themselves all over him dont mind me being there.

It’s a no from me