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amethyst1 · 36-40, F
I would think it means that the person wasnt important to them and there wasnt a strong bond.
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@amethyst1 in that case why would one risk a meaningful relationship over that?
amethyst1 · 36-40, F
@SW-User Many reasons...
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@amethyst1 I wonder how many of them mean anything at all though.
amethyst1 · 36-40, F
@SW-User Well they probably do mean something a bit or for a short time, perhaps not as important as the original relationship...
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@amethyst1 What reason can I provide to convince you that breaking your trust was a better solution than communicating with you that something is wrong?
amethyst1 · 36-40, F
@SW-User Communication is key in a relationship, especially if you are invested in it. Obviously cheating is not the answer and 'it meant nothing' likely wont make the other person feel any better. I was just answering your question. Although I know I didn't give specific reasons for someone cheating other than some short term benefit or distraction for that person
@SW-User Exactly! Instead of trying to fix the problem, communicate, or end it in an honest, mature way...cheaters are cowards
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@fernie2 Wish I could upvote this 100 times