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All That Glitters is Not Gold After All

I was dumped a couple of times by men that thought that they had found someone prettier or better than me. The problem is they never told me. I had to find out the hard way through public postings. I didn't receive an apology or explanation and suffered through the hurt and humiliation. One man i met through work and the other man I met online but met in real life too.

Both guys tried to return because neither relationship worked out. I guess they must think I am stupid too or that time had healed all wounds.

The joke was on them. I cut them off at the knees because this person doesn't forget. Forgive? Yes, for more my benefit than theirs. I moved on. I stopped worrying about karma. It doesn't always work when we want it to.

I am not wasting time with people who do not deserve the attention.
Degbeme · 70-79, M Best Comment
I am truly sorry you were treated as such. Love knowing you moved on from those two. 🤗
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Degbeme it was tough...but i am smart and i caught on right away so the joke was on them...
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@akindheart Oh I know you`re smart. Them! Not so much. ;)

Thank you for best comment. 🤗

SW-User
One thing I've learned in life is that a lot has to do with the type of people we allow in our lives as friends or more.
I've also learned how to see a bit better what types are going to be huge disappointments.... I have gotten tired of being the one to pay the bills, hold a job and all that good stuff. Money isn't everything, but taking a good look at how a person is and WHY is going to make a big difference.
Online or in person, I'm going to pay close attention to a lot of things. lol
How people are daily says a lot... pay attention to it all, including how they are with others around them. Even guys chasing after women and looking for something better becomes more obvious with time.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@SW-User i would never let a man not pull his fair share of the weight. no one will movein my house without a lot of negotiations.
sciguy18 · M
“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”
akindheart · 61-69, F
@sciguy18 perfectly said
This is so true for all sexes.
Peaches · F
Good for you! 🥰 I personally would NEVER trust an online relationship....just not for me. 😔
Par for the course on here
Kumbayakid · 61-69, M
Their loss!
akindheart · 61-69, F
@Kumbayakid I agree if i might say so myself.
Slade · 56-60, M
That's just horrible😞
jim44444 · 70-79, M
They had their opportunity and squandered it. Forgive always, forget never.
akindheart · 61-69, F
@jim44444 my thoughts exactly. One of the men surfaced this week like nothing happened
jim44444 · 70-79, M
@akindheart The number of narcissist jackasses infecting our society is mind boggling!
akindheart · 61-69, F
@jim44444 i seem to be the crap magnet too!
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akindheart · 61-69, F
@RogueLoner no one is perfect. i can tell you my faults better than anyone. unfortunately there are a lot of unhealthy people inthe world
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