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All That Glitters is Not Gold After All

I was dumped a couple of times by men that thought that they had found someone prettier or better than me. The problem is they never told me. I had to find out the hard way through public postings. I didn't receive an apology or explanation and suffered through the hurt and humiliation. One man i met through work and the other man I met online but met in real life too.

Both guys tried to return because neither relationship worked out. I guess they must think I am stupid too or that time had healed all wounds.

The joke was on them. I cut them off at the knees because this person doesn't forget. Forgive? Yes, for more my benefit than theirs. I moved on. I stopped worrying about karma. It doesn't always work when we want it to.

I am not wasting time with people who do not deserve the attention.
RogueLonerM
[quote]I am not wasting time with people who do not deserve the attention.[/quote]
Ayyyyup! 馃榿 Same here. Not that I'm any prize, but for ONCE, someone will have put forth [b]some[/b] effort to earn ME, in addition to my earning them.
I'm tired of being put under microscopes and scrutinized by people LOOKING for [c=BF0000]red flags[/c] who are worse than I, all for the grand exalted privilege of breathing their glorious air.
akindheart61-69, F
[@609293,RogueLoner] i hear you. i don't look for red flags but when they pop up, i listen. but you are right. we can be too sensitive too
RogueLonerM
[@18045,akindheart] Yeah, I won't let some imperfect person tell me how unworthy I am, but when I point out THEIR faults, they get all defensive and bent out of shape. No more. 馃槈
akindheart61-69, F
[@609293,RogueLoner] no one is perfect. i can tell you my faults better than anyone. unfortunately there are a lot of unhealthy people inthe world
sciguy18M
鈥淣ever make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.鈥
akindheart61-69, F
[@361684,sciguy18] perfectly said
Kumbayakid61-69, M
Their loss!
akindheart61-69, F
[@345745,Kumbayakid] I agree if i might say so myself.
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jim4444470-79, M
They had their opportunity and squandered it. Forgive always, forget never.
akindheart61-69, F
[@8129,jim44444] my thoughts exactly. One of the men surfaced this week like nothing happened
jim4444470-79, M
[@18045,akindheart] The number of narcissist jackasses infecting our society is mind boggling!
akindheart61-69, F
[@8129,jim44444] i seem to be the crap magnet too!

 
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