Today relatives of my husband visited us

They told me and mother in law not to give tension to my husband. If my husband will be ok then only we will have some value. But what about me, who was raised as princess by their parents without 0 tension and 0 stress, what about me who cleared in law's house loans in just one year. What about me who acts strong and confident but will be devastated by a little thing. They didn't told, you have suffered a lot or done alot for this house. My mum would feel proud as well as sad after my doing for this house but they cared only about my husband but not about my suffering and sacrifices. I love my husband but I also don't deserve all this bullshit in life just because I got married.