Today relatives of my husband visited us

They told me and mother in law not to give tension to my husband. If my husband will be ok then only we will have some value. But what about me, who was raised as princess by their parents without 0 tension and 0 stress, what about me who cleared in law's house loans in just one year. What about me who acts strong and confident but will be devastated by a little thing. They didn't told, you have suffered a lot or done alot for this house. My mum would feel proud as well as sad after my doing for this house but they cared only about my husband but not about my suffering and sacrifices. I love my husband but I also don't deserve all this bullshit in life just because I got married.

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Oster1 · M

I really feel bad for you and wish you had stayed home. I do not want to make you feel bad but this whole deal is very, very sad. I apologize but it really bothers me. 😔

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Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F

@Oster1 I don't care about debts and all but atleast they would have shown some care for my suffering and sacrifices as well

Oster1 · M

@Simplegirlstory Exactly! This is what bothers me the most. Their lack of respect, gratitude and appreciation, their sense of entitlement, no sense of family for loving their son, etc. No, I do not think you will ever be accepted into the family. I’m not sure but I get the feeling your Husband could and should do more to support you. It’s none of my business but I have read you for a long time, well before you were married. You had so many hopes and came from a loving family. Honestly, it does hurt me.

Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F

@Oster1 I appreciate, I am doing my best and will do my best to improve the situation

Oster1 · M

I would say unfortunately, you will never be “blood” family to them and same for respect for you. Hold off on having a child as long as you can.

SimplyAPerson · 22-25, F

Sounds like a toxic environment. Sending you lots of hugs

Lilpandaa · 22-25, F

You just saying you're previligied

Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F

@Lilpandaa I am not, I have promised myself not to take single penny from anyone and had done so but I suffered so much due to inlaws debts

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