Is your dream 'to have' or 'to be'?

Both. To behave.

To be, having is just a substitute to make one feel better while avoiding being.

Very cool question!

I'm gonna go with - "To Be".
Sounds like self improvement.

I also like Uncalled4 response - also very clever.

My dream is Miley.

To have and to hold till death do us part

to be. I can borrow what i don't have

to be so to have

To be.

Holding on to... Anything - eventually creates friction.
Life is change.