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I dreamed that I was in a house, and my male best friend was sort of lounging on the sofa, when my ex came in. In RL he turned into a horror...neglectful, controlling, isolating me, angry, abusive, terrifying...but in the dream he was just like the man I fell in love with.
He was doing little chores for me, moving heavy plant pots out onto my deck, and he was just as good looking and slim and muscular as when I met him. without the big pot belly.
I remember that it felt wonderful to have him back...as he used to be. He was being so kind and helpful. It was like having someone you really loved come back to you in spirit after they died.
Somewhere in the process of the dream my male best friend slipped out the door, and I wasn't too concerned.
I woke up and it bothered me, that I would dream of him that way, when the reality is so very different.
He was doing little chores for me, moving heavy plant pots out onto my deck, and he was just as good looking and slim and muscular as when I met him. without the big pot belly.
I remember that it felt wonderful to have him back...as he used to be. He was being so kind and helpful. It was like having someone you really loved come back to you in spirit after they died.
Somewhere in the process of the dream my male best friend slipped out the door, and I wasn't too concerned.
I woke up and it bothered me, that I would dream of him that way, when the reality is so very different.
