Girls, Would you rather... [I Seeking A Ticklee Or Tickler]

@IAmJess see this is why I would wanna tickle you, to mess with you haha

@th3r0n did you miss the part where I said I [b][u]hated[/u][/b] it?

this is how I always piss you off, things that I would do to intentionally pick on you a little bit until you got mad and told me to stop, and I'm too honest to pretend otherwise

@th3r0n So if you're with a girl who you know [b] hates[/b] being tickled, has told you she [b]hates[/b] being ticked, you'd still hold her down and tickle her?

Do I understand this right?

@IAmJess hold down, no. Tickle randomly for a half second here and there and mess with her, totally.

There’s a difference between picking on your girl just enough to tease and being a dick.

@th3r0n But if she *hates* being tickled, then any tickling is being a dick.

@IAmJess most girls like it when you’re a **little** bit of a dick, razz them a little bit.

It doesn’t mean like tickle for a few seconds being mean, just make ya jump here and there when you don’t expect it.

@th3r0n But if she let you know that she *hated* it, you wouldn't do it anymore, right? And I seriously doubt that very many girls "like it" when you're a dick. I think they are putting up with it because there's something else they like about you.

@IAmJess sometimes irritating them just enough to get their attention can have positive effects

@th3r0n yeah like never seeing you again ...

@IAmJess harsh beyond holy shit as usual Jess :-p

@th3r0n Me harsh? Dude, I've said I *HATE* being tickled. Once you know someone [b][u]*HATES*[/u][/b] something, why on earth would you still do it to them? And then, why would you expect them to stick around? That's insane.

@IAmJess I’ll admit, if you were just straight up pissed I would probably quit and not do it, but I’d probably try teasing by the tiniest bit of tickling and choose times you wouldn’t expect it. If you had a serious nasty reaction to that tiny bit I would probably stop entirely though.

@th3r0n hey saw your bio...
Do all Christians intentionally make people upset the way you do?

I mean i clearly remember the part where Jesus talks about loving and serving others... Not intentionally triggering their anger for ones own pleasure.
Just a thought

@th3r0n But see, this is the problem. If I (or anyone) *tells you* that this is something that is HATED ... why in the world would you even think of testing just how much it is hated? I need to know what is so twisted in your thinking that you in any way come to some conclusion that this is okay?? This is not okay. And I'm not mad. I'm sincerely just trying to understand your thinking here???

@SW-User You raise a good point. Why would a "Christian" intentionally do things to someone that have been identified as truly hated things?? This makes no sense.

@IAmJess I have several issues with Th3r0n. Waving the banner of a God he sorely misrepresents.
I mean yeah we all screw up but I mean at least try

@SW-User you are clearly prideful and judge by a measure you cannot afford to be judged by.

You need to rethink your words carefully, for you tread upon thin ice with a terrifying plunge below.

As for myself, I don’t feel that teasing in a superficial manner is somehow horrible, but Jess tends to exaggerate and take things too serious.

I suppose I should take that into account, but it always does become an issue between us.

@th3r0n I judge by this measure:

John 13:35
By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.

Matthew 7:15-20
Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves. 16 You will know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes from thornbushes or figs from thistles? 17 Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. 19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20 Therefore by their fruits you will know them.

You have a front of following God, yet ive never seen you utter a word about what hes done for you on here.

@SW-User then you have missed much, but we are not to be ceremonious and speak loudly when praying for attention.

I won’t brag about the things I’ve done for love of God or for love of others to justify myself to one who sees so dimly, but I do tell you that you are wrong and should look deeper.

@th3r0n there seems to be a misunderstanding.[quote]
I won’t brag about the things I’ve done for love of God or for love of others to justify myself to one who sees so dimly, but I do tell you that you are wrong and should look deeper.
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I'm not challenging you to brag about yourself or about what youve done for Jesus, my friend. I'm challenging you to brag about what Jesus has done for you. I'm challenging you to point others to Jesus and the fact that he came and died for all of us.

What's your story? Where did you come from? What did he deliver you from? What has he taught you? Why do you Love him?

Surely, as a warrior for God, you are deeper than something so superficial as tickling women you arent married to for the sake of riling anger. Maybe some women like when you make them upset, but hasn't Jesus instructed you to honor women as yourself?

surely, as a warrior for God, your interests/groups on here should not include both "I hate how everything is over-sexualized" and "I think short girls with long Dark hair and small tits are hot."

A warrior of God should hold himself to a high standard! Instead of intentionally upsetting someone, intentionally point them to the God you believe in. It will benefit them much more than pointing them to yourself by showing them you enjoy upsetting them.

@SW-User quite a lot of words to get around to saying that teasing girls isn’t helpful.

If you wish to know, I was saved from many things. Long ago I had much anger and even hate in me, my anger was so vicious that I began to taste blood in my mouth and want to tear apart and kill horribly anyone who was disrespectful, to taste their blood as they died to feel their death deeply and enjoy it.

I held back that rage, but it wasn’t until I had prayed and believed asking God to take it from me that it was gone from me.

I also fornicated with two women in my lifetime, intending at those respective times to get married but ignorant that I should do no such thing unmarried.

I have ceased that as of over ten years. God makes possible what is not otherwise.

I suffered depression and wanted to die many times, and felt myself edging closer looking for an excuse to give up, but God held onto me anyway.

I won’t brag on myself, because I know I couldn’t have done any good without God, but I’m quite willing to glorify God for what he has done.

@th3r0n Theron, what if your partner or girlfriend or whatever just said to you...[quote][i][c=#BF0080][b]"Gee, I really don't like it when you tickle me. Could you not do it anymore?"[/b][/c][/i][/quote]

Forget the word "hate" from earlier ... Is this a simple request that you would honor? Or would your desire to tickle her be more important to you than her happiness? 

That's the fundamental question.

@IAmJess I would talk serious, I enjoy having something to tease with but if she would tell me with a straight face that it really bothers her so much she needs me to stop tickling her I would honor her wish.

Would probably still poke her to mess with her sometimes, having a playful poke back and forth relationship is important to me. If she couldn’t banter and tease back and forth without getting mad I’d probably be single again soon.